Thanks to all for the advice regarding my son and his poor attitude. I basically told him I'd had enough of it and that he was going to go and do his best to have a good time with the rest of his family. We don't want to hear any grumbling or see any moping while we are down there. I think he is mature enough now to understand I'm serious.
My hubby will be doing a lot of the more exciting rides with him as he likes to act 17 again whenever he gets a chance to. The two of them actually have a lot of fun when they allow themselves to.
Also, I have explained to both kids that this trip is not about ONE person (except me, I turn 41 while we are there,) it is a family trip for all of us. We are going to have a good time and spend some good quality family time together. No worries, everyone will have their down times too!!
We had thought of taking a friend with him but then he would behave differently around them and I just don't go for that. We did that when we went to Branson a couple years ago and the two of them went out of their way to alienate the rest of us and act out in a not so "cool" way.
I think Owen will be just fine once we get down there and he lets go of what could be and just enjoys what is right there in front of him.
Thanks again for all the advice!! --Renee