NJBILL
Always Keep An Eye To The Sky
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Hey all - New to this thread - we leave a week from tomorrow morning. I am soo excited!!
Just wondering if anyone else there has any young adults going along with them, My DS (20) is afraid he will be bored and it's driving me crazy. He thinks the whole trip will be just about his little sister (8) and that is soo not true. (It's all about me, ha ha!) We left him home for the last two trips but all we heard after was that we didn't want him with us. That is not true, we always ask him to join us but he didn't want to go. This time we are also bringing my parents so we are making him join us. Grrr, he is a wonderful kid seriously, great values and very smart, He's a junior in college now and I was hoping that he would just enjoy a family trip together before school starts next month. We even invited his girlfriend but she can't join us so now he's thinking he will be bored. I don't want him to ruin our trip but I think it's important that he come with us. I know it would break Grandma and Grandpa's hearts if he doesn't go. Does anyone have any tips for me?? I have already informed him that he doesn't have to hang out with us the whole time and we will give him plenty of free-time but he doesn't seem to care about that.
We had a similar experience a few years back with my 19yr old... The fact that he has a "girl friend" at home makes the situation harder. Our son was a bit mopey, but generally speaking, once he got there..things fell into place, and we all had a good time..I would just let things happen, and not keep trying to convince him before the trip how much fun he will have..just let it happen and try to keep him involved in the process..good luck..