Official Breast Feeding Support Thread for WDW Parks

[disneydreamin247]

Doesn't sound weird to me at all!

Not weird at all! Looks like I'll be nursing Katie for a 3rd time in WDW this summer. She'll be 23 mos Thu, and not even thinking about slowing down

Thanks! BF isn't common where I live at all, never mind extended BF. When people ask how long I plan to nurse Lilyana and I say 3 years I get rude comments and blank stares. I don't get it! I love nursing her, and even if that weren't the case the cost of formula would sure as heck convince me to do it!

 

[december]

Thanks! BF isn't common where I live at all, never mind extended BF. When people ask how long I plan to nurse Lilyana and I say 3 years I get rude comments and blank stares. I don't get it! I love nursing her, and even if that weren't the case the cost of formula would sure as heck convince me to do it!

Not normal here either. I know very few people who breastfeed at all, and no one that has done it past a year. But I'm 38, she is my last baby, and I just don't care anymore! My family thinks it is awful (except for my almost 91 yr old grandmother), and my husband keeps asking me to stop. But we aren't ready, and that is what matters!

 

[kappyfinn]

Not normal here either. I know very few people who breastfeed at all, and no one that has done it past a year. But I'm 38, she is my last baby, and I just don't care anymore! My family thinks it is awful (except for my almost 91 yr old grandmother), and my husband keeps asking me to stop. But we aren't ready, and that is what matters!

Another one. Also uncommon to nurse here. Most people seem to tolerate it when they are under 3 months or so. But after that point the questions start. How long are you going to nurse? Aren't you afraid he will bite you? Even my own mom would make comments. It is so frustrating. I can totally understand why some mom's don't want to nurse. There is very little support to nurse. Heck even when DS was born the pediatrician on call wanted me to formula feed him on his second night. I said no way.

Unfortunately he weaned himself at 14 months, but I'd do it again in a heart beat.......weird looks, rude comments and all.

 

[disneydreamin247]

My family is less than supportive also. My mom and grandma are the only ones who support it. We were out to eat and my aunt told me to go to the bathroom to nurse her. I told her when she eats her meal in the restroom that's when Lilyana will.

 

[jkstewart1800]

My family is less than supportive also. My mom and grandma are the only ones who support it. We were out to eat and my aunt told me to go to the bathroom to nurse her. I told her when she eats her meal in the restroom that's when Lilyana will.

I always find the "go to the bathroom to feed your baby" such a CRAZY thing to suggest. In a few years (like when Lilyana is 2) ... one day while you're all out to eat again as a family. When the food arrives take L and her plate and head to the potty.... see what your Aunt thinks about it then!

 

[disneydreamin247]

I always find the "go to the bathroom to feed your baby" such a CRAZY thing to suggest. In a few years (like when Lilyana is 2) ... one day while you're all out to eat again as a family. When the food arrives take L and her plate and head to the potty.... see what your Aunt thinks about it then!

I just don't understand how something so natural is such a taboo issue, especially in today's society. Unless you watch LO latch on, I'm no more exposed than the 18 year old with her cleavage hanging out. Why is it any different?

 

[tristansmiles]

LOVE THIS THREAD!!!

W're going to Animal Kingdom for the first time this August for 4 nights/5 days to celebrate our son's 2nd birthday. He still nurses and I was thinking about what may happen when I need to nurse him. After reading through these pages I feel so much better! I usually don't care about nursing in public, but I do worry about small children walking by who aren't familiar w/ nursing (shame, I think) and their moms and dads giving me the evil eye...

I can't wait!!

Feel proud for giving your babies the best!

 

[december]

My MIL pulls the bathroom thing. At my niece's bday part, she told me that she had put a chair in the bathroom for me. Um.....no thank you

 

[SmallWorld71]

Another one. Also uncommon to nurse here. Most people seem to tolerate it when they are under 3 months or so. But after that point the questions start. How long are you going to nurse? Aren't you afraid he will bite you? Even my own mom would make comments. It is so frustrating. I can totally understand why some mom's don't want to nurse. There is very little support to nurse. Heck even when DS was born the pediatrician on call wanted me to formula feed him on his second night. I said no way.

Unfortunately he weaned himself at 14 months, but I'd do it again in a heart beat.......weird looks, rude comments and all.

In reference to the bolded part, I'm just curious if this is a regional thing, or if the pendulum is swinging back the other way. I remember when DS12 was born it was basically assumed by the hospital staff that I would be nursing. They really pushed it, to the point where some people who wanted to bottle feed may have been quite uncomfortable. They spent a long time working with me as there were some problems due to an emergency c-section that caused my milk to be very slow to come in. With DD's birth I just told them upfront and I really didn't need help because I was experienced so I don't know if they would have pushed it.

As far as nursing in the bathroom. I hated changing diapers in public restrooms (although I did.) Can't imagine feeding a baby in one.

Anyway, congrats to all you nursing moms. I nursed DS12 for about 13 months and DD8 for about 10 1/2 (she self-weaned) and it was definitely one of the most rewarding experiences in my life.

 

[SoonerSarah]

We have been very blessed to have a BFing supportive family. Both mine and DH's families. Several of DH's cousins BFed, and while his brother is single, he was very cool with it too. MIL BFed, even though it wasn't really done at the time and her mom and sister were very against it. My SIL BFs and one of my cousins is still nursing her 2.5year old. My mom BFed and my two younger sisters are very supportive and plan to BF. Even my grandparents are very cool with it. I have a few friends that extended BF.

I guess a part of me will never quite understand someone who is not supportive, and why they even care.

 

[JoanneDisFan]

I guess I'm very lucky in that I am surrounded by friends who have BF'd and still BF'd. I will nurse anywhere and everywhere, and have never had any problems. Most of the time people don't even realize I'm nursing, and I don't always use a cover. DS is getting to the point he will pull off the cover. Can't wait till October to nurse at Disney.

 

[disneydreamin247]

We have been very blessed to have a BFing supportive family. Both mine and DH's families. Several of DH's cousins BFed, and while his brother is single, he was very cool with it too. MIL BFed, even though it wasn't really done at the time and her mom and sister were very against it. My SIL BFs and one of my cousins is still nursing her 2.5year old. My mom BFed and my two younger sisters are very supportive and plan to BF. Even my grandparents are very cool with it. I have a few friends that extended BF.

I guess a part of me will never quite understand someone who is not supportive, and why they even care.

Tonight my "bathroom aunt" told me it's weird to nurse a baby that is old enough to walk. WTH?! I firmly stated that it is recommended to nurse babies longer than 3 months, and that we will be nursing at least until LO is 2. My baby, my body, MY CHOICE. I love that my grandmother chimed in that BF is good for baby AND mom. Gotta love my granny!

 

[december]

Dh told me tonight (while I was nursing) that she was too old to nurse if she could ask for it in complete sentences. I told him she wouldn't be punished for being smart

 

[kappyfinn]

In reference to the bolded part, I'm just curious if this is a regional thing, or if the pendulum is swinging back the other way. I remember when DS12 was born it was basically assumed by the hospital staff that I would be nursing. They really pushed it, to the point where some people who wanted to bottle feed may have been quite uncomfortable. They spent a long time working with me as there were some problems due to an emergency c-section that caused my milk to be very slow to come in. With DD's birth I just told them upfront and I really didn't need help because I was experienced so I don't know if they would have pushed it.

OP here. The dr was concerned about DS's weight. However per the lactation consultant we were well within the accepted limits of weight loss. She thought the dr was being silly and rolled her eyes when I told her what he said. I will say, I've had a baby in AL and one in TX. This was in AL and I've found that around here, people (including medical professionals) aren't as supportive as bf as they were in TX. Now my own pediatrician here has been nothing but supportive of me, or else I'd found another one.

My SIL was trying to bf my niece when she was born (also in AL). DN's bilirubin levels were elevated and her pediatrician told her to quit nursing and exclusively forumula feed. This was at 2 weeks old. My mouth dropped when she told me that. My DS's levels were higher than my niece's and my pediatrician NEVER mentioned for me to stop.

It is frustrating to me that nursing moms can't get support from the hospitals around here. I was determined to nurse my DS as my DD was a premie and never really got it. So I was a bit head strong and did things my own way. Even the nurses told me I was nursing too much in the hospital. I just ignored them and did what I wanted.

 

[SmallWorld71]

OP here. The dr was concerned about DS's weight. However per the lactation consultant we were well within the accepted limits of weight loss. She thought the dr was being silly and rolled her eyes when I told her what he said. I will say, I've had a baby in AL and one in TX. This was in AL and I've found that around here, people (including medical professionals) aren't as supportive as bf as they were in TX. Now my own pediatrician here has been nothing but supportive of me, or else I'd found another one.

My SIL was trying to bf my niece when she was born (also in AL). DN's bilirubin levels were elevated and her pediatrician told her to quit nursing and exclusively forumula feed. This was at 2 weeks old. My mouth dropped when she told me that. My DS's levels were higher than my niece's and my pediatrician NEVER mentioned for me to stop.

It is frustrating to me that nursing moms can't get support from the hospitals around here. I was determined to nurse my DS as my DD was a premie and never really got it. So I was a bit head strong and did things my own way. Even the nurses told me I was nursing too much in the hospital. I just ignored them and did what I wanted.

Thanks for the response. DS12 did lose a lot of weight in the hospital due to the delay in my milk. I did decide to supplement with the formula because it was starting to reach levels outside the accepted limits. The nurses were great about helping me continue to nurse DS and then DH would give him a little supplemental formula. This was only necessary for a couple of days and the staff was great about making sure that it didn't interfere with my desire to BF. Once the milk came in, we were able to stop the formula. I am sorry that you didn't get the same support; it would have been so easy for me to get discouraged if I didn't have the support from the nurses! Good for you for being so strong!

DNephew(11) did end up back in the hospital at a couple weeks old due to high bilirubin levels, but he just spent some time under the lamps. DD also had a bit of trouble with jaundice - she was a big baby! but it was never suggested I stop nursing.

I understand that there are lots of reasons why someone wouldn't/ couldn't nurse. But, I don't understand the lack of support from the medical staff. It's such a shame.

 

[nvsnot]

I didn't think we'd still be nursing by the time of our Disney trip in June, but DD, who will be 2.5 in June, is still nursing and is not showing any signs of stopping so I doubt that she'll have weaned herself by June.

I dare anyone to give me a dirty stare when they see my DD's legs hanging clumsily off of my lap while nursing in the "World"

 

[SmallWorld71]

One thing I think we all need to remember, is that there are some people who will stare at others in lots of situatations. If you spend some time on the disABILITIES board, you will see posts about people getting stared at because they are in a wheelchair, are Pooh sized, need a special accommodation and so on and so forth. Or maybe someone thinks your child is too old for a stroller, too young to be on this ride, etc...Some people are just rude people, others just have vacation brain syndrome and don't mean any harm. Your best bet in any of these situations is to try and not worry about others and have the vacation that is right for you and your family.

 

[cbeehler3]

As a Doula I can tell you that the AAP and WHO recommend nursing for two years. AND exclusively for 6 months. I don't know a two year old who can't walk. ;-) (obviously there are exceptions to the walking statement)

Tonight my "bathroom aunt" told me it's weird to nurse a baby that is old enough to walk. WTH?! I firmly stated that it is recommended to nurse babies longer than 3 months, and that we will be nursing at least until LO is 2. My baby, my body, MY CHOICE. I love that my grandmother chimed in that BF is good for baby AND mom. Gotta love my granny!

 

[tristansmiles]

I love that my grandmother chimed in that BF is good for baby AND mom. Gotta love my granny!

There should be a "like" button on here!

One thing I think we all need to remember, is that there are some people who will stare at others in lots of situatations. If you spend some time on the disABILITIES board, you will see posts about people getting stared at because they are in a wheelchair, are Pooh sized, need a special accommodation and so on and so forth. Or maybe someone thinks your child is too old for a stroller, too young to be on this ride, etc...Some people are just rude people, others just have vacation brain syndrome and don't mean any harm. Your best bet in any of these situations is to try and not worry about others and have the vacation that is right for you and your family.

Too true.

 

[Owl's Friend]

I loved the room for nursing at the Magic Kingdom. So calm and cool (it was July, ds was 4 mo old). I know I disliked the set up of 2 of the parks nursing rooms (very small) but can't remember which ones they were. To my mom's dislike I also BF during a few shows, the airplane ride, and a few longer slow moving rides.