stitchlovestink
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My post was in NO WAY trying to imply anything negative towards Mike & Holly. Thank you very much for organizing our FE. I'm sure it takes a LOT of time and effort that is clearly unrewarded. You did a Fabulous job!! Our cruise thread and FE was incredibly long so if people posted that they were only giving to kids, I missed it. I guess the only suggestion would be like previously suggested maybe adding that info to the FE by a separate column or color.
I wasn't trying to sound ungrateful in my post. I truly wasn't. But was just trying to express that the original point of the FE wasn't just about kids. I think Happytime hit the nail square on the head when she stated that "most" kids aren't interested in them as they are just to busy with all the other kid activities. I just felt VERY BAD for those who gave such wonderful creative gifts and weren't given 'anything' from another cabin in return. It was just very thoughtless. That was my point. I guess when I join FE in the future I will ask the organizer to set some guidelines up front so that everyone has an idea of the expectations. Maybe this will help alleviate this from happening again, I don't know? I just think everybody needs to know the expectations (which doesn't include a handmade gift) but you shouldn't allow people to give to you if you have no intention on reciprocating.
I wasn't trying to sound ungrateful in my post. I truly wasn't. But was just trying to express that the original point of the FE wasn't just about kids. I think Happytime hit the nail square on the head when she stated that "most" kids aren't interested in them as they are just to busy with all the other kid activities. I just felt VERY BAD for those who gave such wonderful creative gifts and weren't given 'anything' from another cabin in return. It was just very thoughtless. That was my point. I guess when I join FE in the future I will ask the organizer to set some guidelines up front so that everyone has an idea of the expectations. Maybe this will help alleviate this from happening again, I don't know? I just think everybody needs to know the expectations (which doesn't include a handmade gift) but you shouldn't allow people to give to you if you have no intention on reciprocating.
