Just got this E mail from a friend. It has really a wondderful message about life in general. As I count you all as friends, I thought I should share it with you.
It certainly made me think a bit !
> I like the sentiment x x
> >>>
> >>>The Wooden Bowl
> >>>
> >>>I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow,
> a
> >>>week from now, a month from now, a year from now. A frail old man
> went to
> >>>live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year
> >>>old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was
> blurred,
> >>>and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table.
> >>>
> >>>But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made
> >>>eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he
> >>>grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
> >>>
> >>> The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We
> >>>must do something about father," said the son. "I've had enough of
> his
> >>>spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor."
> >>>
> >>> So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There,
> >>>Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.
> >>>Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in
> a
> >>>wooden bowl!
> >>>
> >>>When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometime he had
> a
> >>>tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple
> had for
> >>>him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
> >>>
> >>>The four-year-old watched it all in silence. One evening before
> supper,
> >>>the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.
> He
> >>>asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?"
> >>>
> >>>Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl
> for
> >>>you and Mama to eat your food in when I
> >>>grow up." The four-year-old
> >>>smiled and went back to work.
> >>>
> >>>The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then
> >>>tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was
> spoken,
> >>>both knew what must be done.
> >>>
> >>>That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him
> back
> >>>to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every
> meal with
> >>>the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to
> care
> >>>any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the
> tablecloth
> >>>soiled.
> >>>
> >>> On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens,
> how bad
> >>>it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way
> he/she
> >>>handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and
> >>>tangled Christmas tree lights.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that,
> >>>regardless of your relationship with your parents,
> >>>you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making
> a
> >>>"life.."
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's
> mitt
> >>>on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But
> if
> >>>you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your
> work
> >>>and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I
> >>>usually make the right decision.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch
> someone.
> >>>
> >>>People love that
> >>>human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a
> >>>friendly pat on the back.
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.!
> >>>
> >>>I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care
> about. I
> >>>just did.
> >>>
> >>> NOTICE AT THE END, THE DATE THE CANDLE WAS STARTED. GONNA GIVE
> YOU
> >>>GOOSE BUMPS.
> >>>
> >>>I am not going to be the one who lets it die. I found it believable
> --
> >>>angels have walked beside me all my life--and they still do.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>The Candle Of Love, Hope & Friendship
> >>> ()
> >>> |---|
> >>> |---|
> >>> |---|
> >>>
> >>>This candle was lit on September,15, 1998. Someone who loves you
> has
> >>>helped keep it alive by sending it to you.
> >>>
> >>> Don't let The Candle of Love, Hope and Friendship die! Pass It On
> To
> >>>All Of Your Friends and Everyone You Love!
> >>>
> >>>Please keep this candle alive
> >>>
> >>>Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me,
> I
> >>>may
> >>>not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.