Hi guys! Long time, no see/hear. Garry and I would like to thank EVERYONE for all their thoughts and prayers through this rough time. The flowers were BEAUTIFUL!!! It made our day to see them. Anna Marie and Garry were the first to notice them. That day was crazy! We had all the kids with us for the afternoon calling hours. However, one of Garry's dispatchers came at 3pm and took the three "little ones" for the rest of the day and evening. She met my mom at our house so my mom could get them ready for bed. The kids had a blast with her. And it helped us too so we weren't worrying what the kids were doing at the funeral home. I must say, they were very well behaved for the almost 2 hours they were there.
Garry's "family in Blue" made a great showing both days. We had the Mayor, safety director, law director, personal director, assistant service director, economic developement officer, fire chief, court clerk, several secretaries from city hall, most of the auxillary police officers, and all except for maybe 5 officers come to the calling hours(I'm sure that I have forgotten some more of the "city officials"). Not to mention almost all of my aunts and uncles and several cousins. You all were with us as well!! Everytime I looked at the flowers, I smiled! Not to mention the friendly faces of Denine and Jerry in a VERY unfriendly atmosphere! (I'll explain that more later!)
Then on wednesday, the department sent 3 motorcycles, 2 marked cruisers and one unmarked cruiser to the funeral. It was a wonderful scene and honor for both Garry and his dad. Garry said "his dad went home in style". It was a very nice.
It was nice to go out to dinner with Denine and Jerry the other night. We had lots of fun and laughs which was needed! They got to hear in great detail of the unpleasantness we had to undergo. Long story, but the shorter story goes............ Garry and I had been at his dads since early thursday morning. We stayed up with his dad both Thursday and Friday nights since EVERYONE else and I mean EVERYONE went to bed. Then Sat came and we stayed with him all day and evening and we hear Garry's dad's wife start to bash Garry. Now she had been drinking since 11am and I won't get into everything that was said, but Garry's brother also started in on the Garry bashing along with a friend of the family. Needless to say Garry and I were floored at what was being say and decided to to not make a scene, but to leave the house in which we were not welcomed at. So we left and a few hours later, his dad passed. The whole incident just made us sick to our stomachs. So Garry and I were the black sheep the entire week. No one talked to us. That was his dad's wife, her 4 children and thier family and Garry's brother and his family. Thank goodness for the family in blue , Denine and Jerry, and Garry's mother's side of the family.
Well, this post is getting long, so I'm gonna go. I'll be back! Thanks again~!