Good morning,
There's so much I want to do in the house today, but I just can't get motivated to move. Here's my list: laundry, changing the winter curtains to the spring colors, straightening up Jesse's room, cleaning out the pantry, bleaching down the bathrooms, the list goes on and on. If the weather was warmer, it would help, as I'd open all the windows and the spring air would get me going. I'd also like to find a bag of money on my doorstep, but wouldn't we all.
Something good happened over the weekend. Jesse's cellphone was on it's last breath, so we went to buy a new one. (After 9/11, it became a top priority that we all have cell phones). So we go into the TMobile store, and Jesse wants a $300 phone. I always get him what he wants, but this time I really didn't feel comfortable with spending so much money. I explained to him that bills have been higher, gas prices are high, etc, and he really didn't need such a fancy phone. Well, he didn't like that AT ALL. He pouted and then tried to pull a silent tantrum telling me he didn't want a new phone if he couldn't get what he wanted. So I grabbed him by his hair, threw him on the floor, and threatened him within an inch of his $50 haircut. Only kidding, I calmly told him he needs a new phone, gave him the choices, and told him to pick one. He chose one, we left, and he gave me the silent treatment walking back to the car. I let it be.
Then a little while later, he thanked me for the phone! Even hugged me. No apology, but that was apology enough for me. I felt so good, seeing that he rose above his childishness. My baby is maturing and becoming a good young man, leaving the spoiled teen behind. Just goes to show that even though I was responsible for "spoiling" him, things can be reversed. Teaching him the value of a dollar is my new mission, and it looks like it's off to a good start.
So that's my day so far. How's everyone else doing today?