Work on developing a thick skin. Try not to sweat the small stuff.
Schoolwork is stressful. The first few years on the job can be even more stressful. Find a few people you can lean on and lean with. That support will be very important to you.
Try to keep in mind why you went into it when things get nuts. That's what it's all about.
Nurses are like mothers. Both are endless, thankless jobs, and it's difficult to capture all we do. Very few understand or appreciate the professional nurse's actual role and responsibilities (Nursing Process? Nurse Practice Act? Nursing Research? What are those?) or even the difference between a person answering a phone, a medical assistant, a technical nurse and a professional nurse. And like mothers, nurses are subject to lots of criticism, warranted or not.
Hold onto the sincere thanks you occasionally get from patients and families. You've made a difference for them. Remember that you will be part of some of the most difficult events of their lives.
Systems in hospitals and other health care facilities are far from perfect. You may very well feel people's frustrations firsthand. Try not to take it personally. When you're on the other side of the bed yourself, you understand more how they feel. Treat everyone the way you yourself would like to be treated and you can at least feel confident you've done your part, and remember that a large part of what you do is to advocate for them - again, the same way you'd want someone to do it for you if it were your family member in the bed.
Good luck with your studies.
