Maleficent2 said:Not sure how you found out that a staff member feelings were hurt but I suspect it was the same as it happened before when staff contacted a DIS member within the game.
I am deeply concerned about this Roof!
You should not be made to feel like you have hurt staff feelings and who ever made you feel that way needs to be reprimanded... I am sorry if they (staff) do not want to hear that but it concerns me that any member of this or any other VMK fansite forum is approached within the game and made to feel bad about something they have said here on the DIS or any other forum board for that matter. If that is how you found out about "hurt feelings".
VMK staff should under no circumstances discuss this with you with in the bounds of the game itself or at all in my opinion. Players should not have to worry about what staff members feelings get hurt. Actually their feelings should not be getting hurt to begin with they should be able to take constructive criticism of the game for what is it an avenue to possibly the betterment of the game not a personal attack.
This is not the first time this has happened and I truly hope that VMK makes it perfectly clear to their staff that actions of this sort should not happen.
What you said was a valid statement and response to how you felt about this event, period.
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Mal, your guess is correct. A staff member did talk to me in the game about my post through a trade window. I will not name that staff member because it doesn't matter who it was. The worst part was I got disconnected before I could explain myself so it may have seemed like I was being rude. That's why I chose to post my clarification.
I want to make some things clear about the entire situation. Yes, I'm upset that I hurt someone's feelings but I'm glad to have the chance to clear things up. The more upsetting thing for me is I just did not feel comfortable discussing my post within the game. I wasn't sure if I should acknowledge the post because technically, I would be going against VMK values. I do not wish for the person who spoke to me to be reprimanded. I believe this person's intent was to be helpful (and they were). I also like this person a lot. I do want this person and all VMK staff to think about the mixed message they are sending when they talk to a player about something they have written outside of the game.
I'm not sure how VMK staff can handle this type of situation. They could reply to a post just like anyone else but without revealing they are VMK staff. I suppose it would be okay for VMK staff to contact a moderator about a post and ask the moderator to post a reply asking for clarification. I really don't know.