I'm here! I'm here! In fact, I notice I tend to get caught up on lots of other threads and Trip Reports first, and leave my own TR unattended!!
Molly, yesterday, I was reading the rest of your TR, about poor E getting sick on the plane and poor Robert getting the brunt of it, as well as about that jerky businesswoman in the GCH lobby who unleashed her wrath on Robert! Boy, she was a piece of work, wasn't she?
It is a funny thing handling situations like that, where you suddenly find yourself having to share space with strangers - in the GCH or elsewhere. I find that when I am out and about in 'real life,' in the grocery store or in line somewhere else, I am much more annoyed if someone gets in my personal space, and so if I were sitting at a table by myself, perhaps to just be by myself to think ot whatever, if someone came and sat at my table, I may be uncomfortable. It would depend on my mood that day, though. But I would never act the way that lady did to Robert. In fact, I would probably just find a way to tactfully get up and go somewhere else in a way that didn't offend the person - IF I really wanted to be alone. However, if it were a time where I felt like being social, I would probably start chatting up whoever sat at my table. And then that may cause them to get up and leave anyway!!

When I am at
Disneyland or anywhere on its surrounding property, I am in a mindset of, 'Okay, we are all in this boat together; we are all going to be smooshed in lines together and waiting for tables together...we will all want to get our photo taken with Tigger and Pooh....we all want to sit in this nice dark lobby of the GCH and wait for the carolers to perform; let's all be friendly and make the most of it..." Sometimes, of course, people just get rude and obnoxious and I don't feel that diplomatic about them!

I am much more 'open' at DLR than I am anywhere else, I think. I am much more willing to strike up chats with strangers and meet new people and make the most of the experience. I don't think there has been one single trip to DLR in the last couple of years - or maybe ever - where I or we have not struck up a chat with other people while sitting or waiting somewhere. That is one thing out of many that I love about going to DLR - I get the chance to talk (albeit briefly) to people I probably would have never otherwise met. And the GCH lobby seems to facilitate meeting and interacting with people, especially around the holidays. Last year, we sat on the sofas, staking out a good spot for the carolers, and friendly families and couples sat next to us on the couches. We all chatted amongst each other. The year before, same thing - started chatting with other lovely people who were just sitting around in the lobby, by the tree. At one point, I left Shawn at a table in the GCH lobby last year while I went off on my mission to get gingerbread men with ears, and when I returned, a man was sitting in my chair!!! Now, I had no problem at all if he wanted to share our table with us, but there were only 3 chairs at the table and Shawn let him sit in the chair I had been sitting in! But it was okay. He left soon enough. And he even left his water bottle at the table, then came back to get it from us about 10 minutes later, and didn't even bat an eyelash as to what we 'strangers' might have done with his water while he was gone. He just took it back from us as though he trusted us.
So in a way, I think Disneyland brings out the best - and sometimes the worst - in people. Do you notice that?
I will be back with more of an update - or non-update - in a bit. Must go do something quickly.