hi - in rockin robin's report you said that your daughter was nervous about going into the club w/o your son - my daughter was the same but i was able to drop her down into my son's club activities - she had heard so many things about the teen club - and i think that 13 is too young if they are only in 8th grade and the others are high schoolers like mine - so i asked the cruise people and they said that i could drop her down so maybe you can talk to her about doing that -