Just got back from a "surprise" birthday vacation from my DF. ("Surprise" is in quotes because I found out about it!)
We made sure to mention to EVERY CM we spoke to that it was my birthday - when booking, when getting PS's, when checking in at the resort, when arriving at the restaurants, etc. My DF bought me a "Happy Birthday" trading pin, and we went off to Guest Relations for my "It's my Birthday" pin. I didn't wear my lanyard, because I didn't want anything to distract the CM's from my 2 birthday pins.
So, when we check in, my DF tells the CM that this trip is my birthday present, and about how I found out about the trip and our birthday dinner plans. I thought it was odd, but the CM didn't wish me a happy birthday. Well, maybe it was a fluke.
First stop - Epcot! Head straight to the Pin Station and get my "Happy Birthday" trading pin. We tell the CM it's my birthday, make the purchase. Again, no "Happy Birthday". Hmmmm. She was nice enough to remind me to go to guest relations for the "It's my birthday pin", though.
Off to guest relations - they are out of birthday pins. The CM gave me a "Congratulations" pin instead. I thought that was nice of her, but I didn't even get a "Happy Birthday" from her, either.
Now I'm a starting to get a little disappointed. But, I've got the trading pin and the congratulations pin on. I'm sure the CM's will get the point.
I wasn't acknowledged a single time all day.
Well, maybe dinner will be a little different - over to Artist's Point. We remind the girl at the desk it's my birthday, just in case it wasn't on the PS. About 10 minutes later we're seated. We have a nice meal, but not a bit of recognition of my birthday.
I wasn't expecting any "freebies", but I thought maybe a "Happy Birthday" here and there would have been nice. Heck, I would've been estatic if I was offered a fast pass or something. But, nothing.
I guess it wouldn't had been so bad if I knew ahead of time that they weren't allowed to recognize birthdays. But, I've read all the stories and had all this excited anticipation. It was a bit of a let down.
FWIW, they stopped recognizing "anniversaries", too. About 9 months ago, we took my parents down for their 37th anniversary and we were going to surprise them with the "rehitching ceremony." After setting everything up, telling them when reserving the PS, telling the CM's at the desk, etc. At the end of lunch, I took the waiter aside to remind him, and he told me they stopped doing them. Again, a big disappointment. We weren't told by any of the other CM's that they stopped doing them - we had to find out after the meal.