I live in Burlington County, NJ and we paid a LOT for our home. Our taxes aren't TOO bad considering that the townhomes around the corner have tax bills as high as $12,000. We're a single and no where near that! (Our home is about 5 years old, the townhomes are about 1 1/2 years).
I read part of an article in the Philadelphia Inquirer this past weekend about how NJ/PA (Philly area) won't "burst" in terms of the housing market. It stated that since this location is valued by buyers for being close to NYC, Philly and Atlantic City as well as not too far from DC, that the home prices will continue to climb, but not as sharply - and it may take longer to sell your home, but you will make a profit.
DH and I bought our first home (a townhouse in Voorhees, NJ) in 2000. We paid $150 and sold it for $300. That was the only way we could have afforded the home we're in now. Also, I'm a teacher and DH is an environmental chemist - so we fall into the lower middle class category as far as what our annual income is.
What amazes me is that there are about 4 new home developments in my town and they are ALL starting in the $600's. Now, that's BASE price. After upgrades I think many of the homes sell for the $700's or more. Who can afford these homes? The taxes must be close to $20,000 a year! It is truly INSANE!!!!!