Some hints when walking late back to room.
Make a nice key ring with some old keys-- longer the better. Carry in your hand as if you were going to unlock your car door. This makes it easier to jab some one should they come into your space.
Walk with head up- looking around for any danger signs. Have your child walk on the side of the road. Place your self between buildings and daughter.
If you feel uneasy there are plenty of motels along that walk -- make a dash to those. Make sure you know your rurroundings. Take a few extra mins on the walk to the park to know where safe place will be.
Now don't laugh -- but no one needs to know you are traveling with just your 9 year old. When I book room I use the name Pat. Can be man or woman. Ask to have your reservation be booked under a "man" name.
One more thing -- If you feel like you are being followed. Turn fast around and call out name of your Dad or whom ever that you can think of and yell at top of voice-- Hey Mom and Dad get a move on you are falling behind. SAy you will wait and let who was ever behind up now walk past you-- They know you have seen them -- eye contact is a plus.
Walk like you own the place stand straight and tall, walk brisk with authority.
You should have a wonderful time
This is absolutely absurd. It's Anaheim, not downtown Detroit.
This is absolutely absurd. It's Anaheim, not downtown Detroit.
This is absolutely absurd. It's Anaheim, not downtown Detroit.
No need to be rude. If someone takes the time to write out a long, thoughtful reply--then please at least make an effort to be polite.This is absolutely absurd. It's Anaheim, not downtown Detroit.
If it makes someone feel more comfortable/safe, I don't see how it could be "absolutely absurd." More than what many of us plan out, maybe, but we're talking about a mom and a child, walking somewhere unfamiliar at night/in the dark. I'll fully admit that I used the keys in my hand (ready to jab) my first night walking from DLR to my hotel (Super 8).
For the OP: I've done a trip to DLR with just my DD (who turned 8 while we were there), and I've done a trip on my own. In both cases, I was walking back to my hotel in the dark. Both with DD, and on my own, I felt basically safe. As others have said, I paid attention to my surroundings and walked "with purpose" (head up, walking like I knew where I was going, etc), but, only when I was alone (and heading back to the hotel after closing down DLR), did I feel a (very minor) little less safe... but it was also like 1am, and I don't feel safe almost anywhere at 1am
Basically, no matter the time, Harbor is a pretty busy street, and there's other people walking around, so you're rarely ever "really" alone.
Oh, and if you are scared of carrying keys and being able to jab someone with them... my dad made me swear to carry an aerosol bottle of hairspray. Haven't had to use it yet!
If it makes someone feel more comfortable/safe, I don't see how it could be "absolutely absurd." More than what many of us plan out, maybe, but we're talking about a mom and a child, walking somewhere unfamiliar at night/in the dark. I'll fully admit that I used the keys in my hand (ready to jab) my first night walking from DLR to my hotel (Super 8).