No I think you are missing my point. Any poster can expect an ADR to be a firm reservation. But if that is not what it is, and according to Disney it is not, then expecting it to be a firm reservation is self defeating.
Who knows maybe in the future Disney will decide they are booking exact times, and not the next available table. But that is not what the reality is now. If people walk around expecting something they are not told they are getting, they are the ones to blame for being upset by not getting it.
By all means let Disney know if you want things to change. But for now, work with the system that is. Not what you would rather it be.
I understand what you are saying and it works for you. I also indicated that I agree with the charge from a perspective of cutting down on double booking. I am not worried about paying the charge due to double booking because I have never double booked for any reason.
But my expectations are, and for me those are the only ones that matter because your expectations do not affect me at all, that if a restaurant, not just a Disney restaurant, is going to charge me for not showing up, then, in my eyes, you have indicated to me that this is 'set in stone' so to say. And, if you are not going to honor your end of it, for whatever reason, then I will go somewhere else. So no it is not self defeating because I will be going somewhere else that services me. I will be enjoying my dining experience instead of waiting to be seated at a Disney restaurant.
And and saskdw indicated, the more I go offsite, the better chance that I don't come back.
Maybe part of the difference in views is that I don't see the highest cause of the problem of getting ADRs, in most of the restaurants, as double booking. It may have been a cause in certain ones like CRT and Le Celliur, but not in the others. More than likely you can get Le Celliur now because they changed it to two credits for dining plan and most people moved on.
In my eyes, the issue is more that the restaurants are not ran at full capacity. The best example of this I can provide you is Be Our Guest. It was very difficult for us to get reservations to eat dinner there during our May trip. We finally did get a reservation about two months prior to the trip. The night we were there, one entire dining room was empty and not being used. I thought maybe it had been used earlier and shut down later in the evening. We had some time waiting to see Beast and I was chatting with a cast member working there. I had asked about the room being closed and she indicated it has not been used all day. This during a week where many people did not get a reservation. I feel things like this have more to do with reservations being hard to get.