...We have tried to convince him to get an
ECV but he is just too proud. (He also can't just sit for long periods of time. He must constantly be changing up walking and sitting.) I told him about the
DAS program and he is so upset with me that I brought it up. He is 77 years old and has never needed "help" before. (Please don't judge... he is a very kind man.) He keeps telling me that he will be fine on all of Disney's mild rides... no coasters... but he just can't wait in line. I keep trying to explain how this works and I'm hopeful I can convince him before our trip.
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I'm not judging your dad. I promise. I hope I can appeal to his common sense.
Please, please, please tell your Dad that using an ECV is not a "cop out". It's not a "fail". It's simply using the best possible available TOOL to get the most possible enjoyment from your family vacation.
If he needs glasses, does he refuse to wear them, going through life squinting at everyone and everything?
If he needs to use a calculator to do math, does he refuse to touch it, and instead resort to pencil and paper - or counting on his toes and fingers?
Both of those - glasses and calculators - are TOOLS that we use every day to make our lives more efficient. At WDW, many people use an ECV as a tool to improve both their stamina, and their enjoyment of the vacation. It can help with pain management as well. If he wants to walk from time to time, you can take a turn behind the wheel so that he can stretch his legs and move a bit. Many people park the ECV in a central location, do things in that area, then move the ECV to the next area they want to visit. Theres no one "proper" way to use an ECV at WDW.
You will not find many benches at all in any of the theme parks now - or the Disney Springs area. We were just there in January of this year - on more than one occasion our daughter simply gave up and sat on the ground when there was no seating available and she needed to take a break.
There are many people who rent
ECVs only at WDW - in their "regular" lives, they never need one or use one. If your Dad is worried about other peoples perceptions of him, tell him not to. The likelihood that he will EVER see any other guests from WDW again is so incredibly tiny that he has a better chance of getting hit by lightning AND winning the lottery in the same day.
I have a long, complicated medical history myself. I won't go into it, but suffice it to say, I hated that I have to use this device. More than you can imagine. But I have learned to view it as a tool to get the things done that I want and need to do. Nothing more.
My eyes suck at seeing - so I wear glasses.
My math skills are horrible - so I use a calculator
My legs don't work like they are supposed to - so I use my ECV.
I owe no an explanation for *why* I use an ECV because it's a tool, nothing more.
Tell Dad to get on that ECV, and ride through that park like a handsome Prince, waving and smiling at all the pretty Princesses he sees! No one will give him a second glance - I promise. They are all too busy Instagramming their latest selfies and what they ate for lunch. Seriously. Your Dad on an ECV is a total non-event at WDW. People are so self-absorbed with their own vacations that they really don't notice anyone else... and a 77 year old man on an ECV is not at all unexpected anywhere in Florida, or WDW. I'm a self-described 3L: Large Lovely Lady, and I promise you that no one gives me a second glance at WDW when I am riding around on my personal ECV. If anyone would draw attention, it would be me, with my hat, gloves and giant sunglasses to help protect me from the sun.
I hope with all my heart that he can see that by using the proper tools, he can make sure that he - and all of his lovely family - have the best possible vacation at WDW.
(and if he wants to prepare and practice ahead of time, have him drive some of the electric shopping carts at Wal-Mart, Lowes, or Home Depot. I'll bet he can master one of those giant lumbering beasts in no time at all - and any ECV he would rent at WDW would be a breeze to drive, compared to those!)