Donald - my hero
<font color=blue>Aww yes. The dreaded "mouse hand"
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I need some love too, I'm sitting at my computer, already late for school with my dad moaning and groaning and crying and throwing up because he has a kidney stone. My mom is trying to get dressed while all of this is going on but she's so slow! I'm really nervous, this is his 3rd one in the past 4 years and his blood pressure is really high. It's been going on since 6 and he won't do anything for it, so my mom is going to force him into the car and to go to the ER.
Hate to be one of those peeps who seem to take away your thunder by saying oh yeah i know cause i've been there BUT I have. Doc told me not a question of IF I will get more but WHEN will i get them. Everytime it hurts just as much as the 1st -- only advantage? I know that is what is happening and i don't get overly worried just head to ER for pain meds and iv fluids to flush them out. I understand the concern about his BP but the docs will be able to keep that under control too -- sending good thoughts
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Seriously, I am so sorry that things are so rough, send some hugs to Em too. I know it is so hard when your kids are struggling, and its awful. I'll be praying that she settles in as things get going.
Thanks -- that is a good idea i think i will encourage her to go back to school on friday evening as well, i (huhm even we) need a break from her. Terrible thing to say but this summer was hard on meI'm so sorry things aren't going well for Em. I hope they improve quickly. But, you DO need to take care of yourself too (or you'll be no good to anyone.) You could plan out with her one evening that she calls early and then have an agreement that she give you until the next day at 10am or so - and then take the pill!! Get some good rest lady.Hopefully, things will look up soon!
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Thanks for that comment it helps to know i am not alone!for you my friend. I've been down that road, and you have my sympathy
Thanks for the hugs
Jacqueline-- So sorry about Em. Maybe you should hook her up with a counselor at school, that person may be able to hook Em up with a support group of peers with the same feelings of being overwhelmed. Maybe you could buy her a recorder to tape the classes so she doesn't feel like she missed anything. Also talking with the counselor maybe you can get an indivdual education plan worked up for her. We're doing that for ds right now, his will follow him into college. This way she maybe allowed extra time to finish classwork and homework if needed and she may not be so overwhelmed. If nothing else maybe taking less classes until she gets used to it might help. Good luck.
Thanks Mary. That really helps to have some positive comments. She comes home every Friday to see her counselor so there is a sense of "normalcy" for her. One of roomies is being VERY helpful and just this past Monday night (the one where i was up all night and online till about 5) made sure she took her meds and stayed & chatted with her until she was ready to fall asleep! Not bad for someone who is only 17 eh?
We took the time to get her set up with a "worker" as such at school to give her all kind of help. She gets: a note taker in every class to help her make sure she doesn't miss anything, a tutor so she can ask question one-one with a senior student. And the BEST? a new computer progamme that helps her read her text books and turn them into study notes. she had a training session on it yesterday and sounds very hopeful that it will help her.
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