I make it a rule to never complain about a movie until I've actually viewed it. I suggest others do the same.
Getting all riled up over a marketing tactic isn't very clever.
I don't give a rat's hiney about this movie. It matters little to me if it's good or bad, since we see so few movies these days. And heaven knows DD won't see it. So it's not the
content of the movie I'm commenting on, but rather the original tagline. (They may have changed it, but they sure didn't have a problem using it, did they?)
Make all the suggestions you want. I suggest you consider the feelings of a young child who hears the words on a TV ads ("It must be hard to love an adopted child as much as your own.") and feels like they've been punched in the gut. To put an ad like that in general distribution where kids of all ages can hear it is irresponsible and downright cruel. It's not being hypersensitive to get irritated when adults don't give a moment's consideration to the emotional well-being of children who have already been through a hell of a lot. Hearing that they are "harder to love" and "not your own" is like a knife to the heart if the child has ANY insecurities whatsoever.
What kind of a person thinks it's perfectly okay to continue hurting children this way and that it's no big deal? Words can hurt children. Would any of us tell our kids they are fat, stupid , ugly or worthless? NO! Then why is it "harmless" for a movie ad to target adopted kids and imply they are second best, not as easy to love and not as good as having a biological child?
Yes, my Mama Bear kicks in on this issue. I'd be a piece of crap mother if it didn't. When I see people giving no thought whatsoever to saying things that can cause pain to my child or any other adopted child, it pisses me off. I have to wonder just how much compassion they have...and how much sense.
When I say the phrase is
THOUGHTLESS, I mean that in the most basic sense. The person who decided it was a great tagline gave zero thought, no consideration at all to the
impact the words could have......not a moment's thought to the potential and even, probable
consequences of such words. They had diarrhea of the mouth and spewed out what they thought was a clever line without once taking time to
THINK about what effect it would have on some adopted children. There are a lot of words to describe people who do thoughtless things that hurt children, when just a few moments of thinking and deciding to not be unkind to children would have stopped them in their tracks.....and none of those words are flattering.
If I had to choose, I'd go with taking the course that would not be cruel to a group of children and use some other line from the beginning. Clearly, that is just not a concern for some people. I mean.....they're just kids.