I guess everyone's experience is a little different. Before ACA I got a lot more coverage for my health premiums. Yes my health premiums went up 5-10% each year. But my copays stayed pretty much the same. So healthcare was affordable. Since the ACA, my premiums are still going up 5-10% each year, but in addition to copays, I have a large deductible along with co-insurance until I reach a potentially financially crippling out of pocket max. Insurance companies and/or employers don't offer co-pay only plans anymore. Those are somehow considered "cadillac plans." The only options include high deductibles and co-insurance. And those deductibles go up every year along with the premium hikes.
I am thankful, though, that I am covered under my husband's insurance. Because even with the faults I just listed, it's significantly better than the coverage available to me through my employer. If I were to take out the insurance where I work, I would have to pay more per month (than my husband's plan) for the privilege of paying the first $3500 per person out of pocket before the insurance would even kick in. And when the insurance does kick in, it doesn't cover everything. It covers NO prescriptions at all. And still carries a 20-30% co-insurance on pretty much everything else. How on earth is that considered to be affordable?
Several of my co-workers have opted to remain uninsured because they can't afford the high premiums plus having to pay 100% of the cost every time they go to the doctor (up to the first $3500 per person.)
And before anyone else says that it's the employers who are at fault for passing along too much of the cost to the employees, I used to work in HR and I know how much the companies I worked for were charged for insurance. They consistently paid the same percentage towards the plans from one year to another. But the insurance companies kept raising the rates. The employers aren't the evil ones in this equation. I'd like to blame the insurance companies, but I have no inside knowledge of how they work. So I don't know if it is fair to blame them, either. (It might be...perhaps someone who works in the industry can share their perspective.)
I do know that my healthcare was much more affordable before the ACA. Now I worry constantly that my husband's employer will change their policy and I will be stuck paying high prices for extremely crappy coverage. So yes, I blame the unaptly named ACA. I am happy for those of you who have been relatively unaffected by the passage of the ACA. Please consider yourself to be extremely lucky.