Yep, same here. I'm asked by the server at the start of the evening if I am using the DDE or DDP. Can't exactly say no, and then produce the card, can I?
I know when DDE first started it was such a mess I ended up not buying it for the second year. I'm back to using it now, but surely do NOT want to get into heated discussions like those of the first year.
You know what.... I just got back from WDW and I can't remember if restaurants/servers specifically asked if we were DDE. (Do you suppose a third cup of coffee might help my brain cells fire up?) I *do* remember them asking "are you on any dining plans?".
agnes!