AndyMcV said:
Hi CarolA
We couldn't afford to by my DD a seat on the plane

. Just myself, DW and DS5. So it will be "challenging" in the plane. She's usually really good and may just sleep in my arms but then again she's never been on a plane before. I hope I just get a plane full of sympathetic parents.
Do people usually have their own seats for their kids or do they rely on the transporation companies? What is the state law about using car seats? Is it mandatory? We'd do it anyway but I think it's actually law in Ontario, Canada.
Thanks,
Andy
Hi Andy~

Siding with Ducklite on this one...I too, have always purchased a ticket for my DD (even as an infant). Yet...I also know MANY other families whom do not have the means, or feel they do not have to buy one (since they attest the airlines would MAKE them if truly, necessary).
So...on that note,

~I would like to offer another option recently used by some people I know. In this age of internet access, most airlines make their flight information (including plane size, type, capacity, etc) easily accessible and readily available for access by guests. PLEASE...view the flights available for the day you wish to travel. View the airline type, and seating capacity. NEXT...phone a reservation specialist and explain your situation. Be frank with her, and inform her you were not able to purchase the extra seat for your 1 YO DD, and request assistance with the anticipated flights, busy times vs. not so busy, etc. She/He should be able to assist you in determining the LEAST crowded/popular flight to take, permitting you FREE AVAILABLE SEATING for your DD.
This worked very well for some associates, whom traveled on a plane with lots of empty & available seats.

Also remember, you are NEVER "stuck" in your reserved seating area. If you board the plane and find you are in a "crowded" area, but notice a few rows back there are "four vacant seats" in a row, by all means---MOVE to those seats! Inform the flight attendant of your intentions, (so she knows where you are), and feel free to relax. Even if you need to separate (a row or two back/forward) and sit with DD5 while your DW stays with DD1, or vice-versa, do this for safety's sake. The peace of mind...is worth the added effort/work.
I hope you enjoy the flight! Perhaps we should take DebIreland's advice...and EMAIL the S/D to participate in the TRANSPORTATION promo!!
TTFN...DF99
