Never, ever get a pet...

[zakatak]

Ever. Because it is just to sad then they pass on. My dh took Nicholas (our 17 year old Balinese) into the vet last night because he was suffering so much. We tried to keep him home, but as of last night he couldn't stand/walk anymore and kept yowling a deep miserable yowl. We know it was time. His kidneys finally gave out on him.

Now I sit and look at my two babies, Kadek (2) and Frisco (a hefty 1) and think I have to do this all over again in hopefully another 15 years... why do we put ourselves through this?

 

[Dreamer04]

Hugs, zakatak.

 

[safetymom]

You can take comfort in the memories that you have.

 

[Virgo10]

I am so sorry for your loss. Maybe this poem will help you as you grieve.

Lend Me A Kitten

I will lend to you for a while a kitten, God said.
For you to love while he lives, and mourn when he's dead.

Maybe for twelve or fourteen years, or maybe two or three.
But will you, 'till I call him back, take care of him for me?

He'll bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief,
you'll always have his memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught below that I want him to learn.

I've looked the whole world over in search of teachers true,
And from the folk that crowds life's land I have chosen you.

Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take my kitten home again?

And in my heart I replied, "My Lord, Thy Will Be Done."
For all the joys this kitten brings, the risk of grief I'll run.

We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may.
And for the happiness we've known, forever grateful stay.

But should you call him back much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand.

If by our love we've managed your wishes to achieve,
in memory of its sweet love, please help us while we grieve.

And when our cherished kitten departs this world of strife,
Please send us yet another one to love for all its life.

 

[Big V]

One year ago tomorrow, I had to take our beloved dog, Lucy, in to be put to sleep. I know how you feel.

 

[Kitty 34]

I'm sure that's how I will feel when I lose my kitty.

 

[kdibattista]

 

[crz4mm2]

Our old Lab died last month too. he was 15. Pretty old for a big dog.
Hugs to you. I am sorry.

 

[slo]

Many, many hugs to you and your DH

I have been there and understand how you feel. I had to put my beloved German Shepherd to sleep when he was only 5 yrs old due to lymphnoma and I was devostated!!

My deepest sympathies to you!!

 

[MsDisney23]

 

[kilee]

I am so sorry.

 

[Tigger_Magic]

Your Pets In Heaven
by Ken D. Conover

To have loved and then said farewell, is better than to have never loved at all. For all of the times that you have stooped and touched my head, fed me my favorite treat and returned the love that I so unconditionally gave to you. For the care that you gave to me so unselfishly. For all of these things I am grateful and thankful.

I ask that you not grieve for the loss, but rejoice in the fact that we lived, loved and touched each others lives. My life was fuller because you were there, not as a master/owner, but as my FRIEND.

Today I am as I was in my youth. The grass is always green, butterflies flit among the flowers and the Sun shines gently down upon all of God's creatures. I can run, jump, play and do all of the things that I did in my youth. There is no sickness, no aching joints and no regrets and no aging.

We await the arrival of our lifelong companions and know that togetherness is forever. You live in our hearts as we do in yours. Companions such as you are so rare and unique. Don't hold the love that you have within yourself. Give it to another like me and then I will live forever. For love never really dies, and you are loved and missed as surely as we are.

 

[alliecats]

I am so sorry for your loss. I know what you mean about being hesitant to get burned again when the pain is so great. I guess they give us so much when they are here that they are worth it. And it is lucky for them that we do stick our hands back in the fire. I know you gave your ktity a wonderful life.
I like this poem because it pretty much expresses the viewpoint of every pet owner I know, whether they want it to be that way or not. If you love animals your heart is always open, even when you know it will eventually get broken,


Stray Cat
by Francis Witham

Oh, what uphappy twist of fate
Has brought you homeless to my gate?
The gate where once another stood
To beg for shelter, warmth and food
For from that day I ceased to be
The master of my destiny.

While he, with purr and velvet paw
became within my house the law
He scratched the furniture and shed
and claimed the middle of my bed

He ruled in arrogance and pride
and broke my heart the day he died
So if you really think, oh cat
I'd willingly relive all that
Because you come forlorn and thin
Well, don't just stand there....come on in!

 

[stinkerbelle]

why do we put ourselves through this?

because they give us so much unconditional love during their time with us. I couldn't imagine not having a dogger in this house.



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[escape]

When we love a lot, we grieve a lot.

Your pain is so raw at this moment. I know the sick feeling. I've been there too! What you did for your Nicholas was an act of love. You didn't want him to suffer any more. Unfortunately, the ones left behind suffer greatly. What you are experiencing is very normal. Someday soon, the big hole in your heart will begin to heal. The wonderful memories you have of your sweet Nicholas will shine through your grief and in the process, bring you some peace and comfort.

Many hugs and prayers are coming your way to help you and your family get through this difficult time.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

why do we put ourselves through this?

Awww.....{HUGS}......sorry about your loss. It is a reminder that life is short and get that love in as much as you can.. The little things matter.

 

[dmslush]

I had to put my sweet annabelle down almost a year ago. My heart was broken. I still miss her. I did get another kitty, Gwen. She is nothing like Annabelle. She would lay around and expect to be treated like a princess. Gwen, on the other hand, is all kitten, tearing up jack all the time LOL LOL LOL.

I am meant to have cats. I know this. I know it will hurt when I lose them, but I take solace in the fact that I give them all they need.

The fact that you grieve goes to show how much love this cat gave you.

 

[Virgo10]

Stray Cat
by Francis Witham

Oh, what uphappy twist of fate
Has brought you homeless to my gate?
The gate where once another stood
To beg for shelter, warmth and food
For from that day I ceased to be
The master of my destiny.

While he, with purr and velvet paw
became within my house the law
He scratched the furniture and shed
and claimed the middle of my bed

He ruled in arrogance and pride
and broke my heart the day he died
So if you really think, oh cat
I'd willingly relive all that
Because you come forlorn and thin
Well, don't just stand there....come on in!

I've got tears streaming down my face. What a beautiful poem!

 

[Dan Murphy]

Some beautiful thoughts here, Karen. So sorry to hear about little Nicholas. Cherish his memories, they will be with you guys forever. Meanwhile, your little guy is there by the bridge.

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers.
Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....​

Author unknown...​

www.petloss.com

 

[Miss Jasmine]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My Kitty is 14 and I am preparing myself for when he is not with me anymore. I know your pain is so much right now that you can't imagine opening your life to another fuzzy baby, but give it time. It may just be the medicine you need.