need some pixie dust - pre trip report( update)( pics coming soon)

[dansyr]

Ok here's the cast
me - 34 yr old obsessive disneyholic
dbf or ex dbf as of 2 weeks ago.

Prelude - My first real trip to disney was about 5 1/2 years ago. I decided to take my dance team to wdw for a competition. I had just started dating my now ex and a few months before and decided to ask him to come along. The competition went great and on a monorail ride afterwards I knew that's when I fell in love with him.


ok, so anyway done with the sappy part. Dbf and I have a taken a trip every year afterwards. So after Sept of last year I started planning this one. We booked in March and everything was going hunky dory. Well about 3 weeks ago he decided he wanted to break up. All of a sudden he was interested in someone else. So now the decision to make ...do we still go or not. Well after much going back and forth we decided to still go with the blessings of the new girl.... I know...I know...I must be crazy.

Well, anyway, we leave tomorrow for the airport hotel and fly our early wed morning . The problem is wdw hold so many wonderful memories for us. I've already planned so many special things for the 2 of us.

So here is where I need everyone's pixie dust. I just really want this trip to be fun and go well. Maybe if I'm lucky it will turn things around for us.

We are doing the gold plan so when we return I will post a trip report describing how we made the most of the plan for those who are interested.


Wish me luck and a ton of pixie dust
Thanks to all on the board for help on planning this trip

 

[jennymouse]

Wow, certainly an odd situation for sure. I hope it goes the way you want it to. Here's some pixie dust for you!

 

[Nanajo1]

Pixie dust for things to work out for the best.

 

[snubie]

Pixie dust to you and I hope that the trip goes as you have planned.

 

[WDWLinda]

I hope you have a fun trip - but I also hope you don't get your heart broken again...don't go into this thinking it'll get you back together...just think of it as a chance to have fun. Your next trip may be with a totally new, special Mr. Right - the nice guy you deserve...(hope you don't mind my 2 cents)

~Linda

 

[rlduvall]

Wow. That really hurts. But really, what kind of "new girlfriend" gives her blessing for her BF to go with another woman on a vacation??? Not me, lol. Also, personally, for me, I couldn't go with him either. Little --hole. Oops sorry, my distaste for some men is coming through, lol. I would give my money up before I did it. BUT, try to have fun since you are going through with it. Good luck.

 

[dansyr]

thanks everyone for your replies.....and the pixie dust. We're leaving for the airport in a couple of hours. I'll post a trip report when I get back and also let everyone know if we survived or I decided to throw him off a ride somewhere.....lol

 

[jimmiej]

Originally posted by rlduvall
Wow. That really hurts. But really, what kind of "new girlfriend" gives her blessing for her BF to go with another woman on a vacation??? Not me, lol. Also, personally, for me, I couldn't go with him either. Little --hole. Oops sorry, my distaste for some men is coming through, lol. I would give my money up before I did it. BUT, try to have fun since you are going through with it. Good luck.

Ouch!!!

 

[Joyciemc]

I hope you have an enjoyable trip, despite the circumstances! Keep us updated when you get back!

 

[rlduvall]

Oh goodness; reading my prior post, I did come off a little strong. Really, I'm a nice person, lol. I am a very independent and strong willed individual (just ask my DH - lol) who hates to see people being taken advantage of like that. I spoke my mind too much, huh??? I'm sorry. Hope she's having fun.

 

[Kingtwin]

Am I the only one dying to know how dansyr and her ex-dbf did on their trip to WDW?? I did see a post from her on the restaurant forum but there was no mention of how they were getting along, just a review of the first day of their gold plan meals.

Sorry for being nosy but I keep hoping that the magic of Disney rekindled their relationship and we're all going to hear about a happy ending. What better place to fall back in love?

 

[Joyciemc]

I was just thinking about this today. How did the trip go, Dansyr??

 

[OhMari]

maybe someone should PM her.

 

[lynn71092]

Me too.
Where's that report??

 

[Dreamin' Disney]

We are all wondering how your trip went!
Hope to hear from you soon.

 

[dansyr]

Hi guys

Thanks for all your concern and well wishes.
For the most part I had a really good time on the trip. How can you not at wdw, despite who you are with.

We had alot of great meals and really relaxed and didn't go to commando this time. For the most part me and the ex got along pretty well. We acted as boyfriend/ girlfriend the whole time. I had some tough moments when she called or when he called her. That was the hard part....dealing with the mixed messages.

As of right now...we are still apart but have been talking alot more and he calls me every night to say goodnight. We've been spending a little more time together then we did right after the breakup. He's still seeing her.....but I'm not sure where that whole thing is going. I don't know how everything will turn out or even if I still want it to turn out with him but I'm taking one day at a time.

I was very sad on our last day at wdw because I didn't want to come home and deal with this mess. He promised me...no matter what happens in the future we will go back to wdw together because he wouldn't share that with anyone else. So right now I'm just starting to plan for next year....I need something to look forward to. Hopefully next year's trip will be under better circumstance's

rlduvall - you did not come off too strong. Don't worry about it. Believe me.....I've had many stronger opinions voiced to me from friends and family about this whole thing. And to be honest....someone probably does need to give me a good swift kick in the behind.

Anyway...thanks again for your concerns....and feel free to pm me if you like about anything


You guys are awesome......oh and by the way ...if anyone knows any single 30 something guys who love disney...send em my way.....lol

 

[Jasminesmommy]

I am to jealous and would never be able to "share" a guy. To many out there. Plus this takes a toll on ones confidence. We all know what its like to break up so do whats right and leave him. You have all of us for emotinal support.

 

[dansyr]

Thanks for the support. I know...I should have nothing to do with him. Right now ...it is just a friend thing going on. I'm sure eventually I will get tired of the situation....and wanna have nothing to do with him. Hopefully it hits me soon.

 

[Space Command]

HOw about 26 yrs old with over 20 Disney visits

 

[dansyr]

lol...space command
I may be looking you up next year if I don't have anyone to go to WDW with.