Hi there,
I think that what you have suggested at OKW is a great idea. Our babies are the same age and we are returning in May this year. We have been to DW each year since 2004 with our older children (7 & 8 yrs) and for a while now have been staying at AKL as it is our favourite resort.
This year however is a different matter and we have decided to opt for the FQ (as we did when they were babies). The reason being is that we really enjoyed walking along the river to the Riverside to grab a bite to eat/drink in the evening. It was lovely and relaxing at the end of a day in the parks to put them in the stroller and enjoy the peace and quiet whilst they got to sleep, Or to enjoy the peaceful boatride to DTD.
I know this time will be completely different as we have to older children that will want to go to the parks in the evening to watch parades/fireworks etc so DD3 will just 'Go with the flow' but I like having the option. I also plan to maybe leave the older girls in the park with my husband and maybe get the bus back with the baby to walk along the river, get the boat to DTD on my own etc and meet back up at the pool later on. If we were at AKL I wouldn't have that option (unless I decide to brave it for the first time and drive the hire car leaving them to bus it!!). However much we love AKL there is nowhere really to 'walk' with the baby. We will still visit to see the animals and get something to eat.
That's just my opinion however. The OKW one bed sounds perfect and I would certainly do that if funds permitted but we have decieded to go twice in the next 12 months, buy annual passes and stay at a moderate.
I also wouldn't suggest the
DDP if you have to pay for it. There is nothing worse than being totally tied to being in a certain park at a certain time when the children are having a melt down. If it's free then I would suggest maybe booking and sticking to the character meals for your eldest then maybe changing some of the table service meals that yo have booked into quick service if you need to when you are there. and just go with the flow! The dining plan has actually spoilt some of our trips with how structured you need to be with it, we have learnt now not to get so hung up on it - it's just food at the end of the day. If you have older children then it can be fantastic and be a big part of the holiday but with unpredictable little ones (apart from the character meals) maybe not so!!
Other things I would suggest taking for the baby would be;
Snooze Shade - From Jojo Maman Bebe as it will help the baby not get so distracted when trying to sleep. Also has SPF 50 protection and keep bugs off.
Really bright coloured ribbon - To tie on stroller handle. We always take a bright pink one with lime green spots and you can spot it a mile off amongst the hundreds of strollers in the stroller parks near rides.
Mozzie Bands - I just got these for the children from Jojo Maan Bebe. They are yellow coil bands to stop mozzie bites so you don't have to worry about the chemicals and getting in eyes etc. I am planning to put it on the babies ankle.
Worth a thought anyway. I have always found suggestions on this forum great and wouln't have known about half the things without it!!