I have gone back and forth between intimate and custom many times. There is just so much to consider. Most of my family members have issued with other family members. I wish I could count on them all to just get along, but I cannot. Plus, my grandma is Hungarian and old-fashioned. She does not want me in college. She wants me to be a stay-at-home mom. She is really mad at me right now and says that I think I'm better than everyone because of my education. Who wants someone like that, family or not, at their wedding? There have been many family fights even one on my grandma's front lawn during my Great Grandma's 80th b-day party. Scott's mother will not fly, so she will not come to Disney anyway. If flying wasn't a problem for her, she still wouldn't go because Scott's brother is the best man, and there are family issues there, too. So, we talked it over and decided to do what WE want and what makes us happy. I am not catering to anyone. So, we're inviting his brother, and my brother and sister. My sis has 2 kids, so they will come, too. It will be small, but it will be the people who care about us the most. I want a really fun place to go afterwards. I want good food, and a place where we can all relax and enjoy our time together.
It's so hard to find what I am looking for. The dessert reception seems cheesy. The menu that I saw was all cheap stuff like cookies and brownies. If it were creme brulee and fancy cheescakes and tira misu, etc. I'd be interested. I didn't recognize anything on Victoria & Albert's menu except a truffled egg? That just sounds gross. I want normal food. Citrico's group menu has a warm onion tart as the appetizer. I hate onions so much that they aren't even allowed in the house. My poor fiance hasn't eaten an onion since 1999. Narcoossee's seemd good, but thet have a lot of seafood, and my sister and I are both allergic. I can't find anything perfect

The upside is that I have a year+ to figure it out. I need some guidance. Maybe even place where they have a show?