NEED HELP! Please post your vows!

Disneymoon0909

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Hi all,

I am getting married in September and am trying desperately to write my vows out including the whole ceremony (what everyone is saying, the order etc). Would anyone be willing to post their vows or better yet what was performed at the ceremony including what the JP/Pastor/Priest/Reverand etc said? Thanks so much ladies :)

Holly
 
My fiance and I are just doing the standard 'Till Death Do Us Part' gig. He is so shy, for him to get up in front of an audience and marry me is a huge thing for him. :-)

I'm getting married at Sea Breeze Point on September 27th !! What is your wedding date? We only have 4-ish months to go ! I hope everything is going well for your planning !
 
These were our wedding vows. My uncle presided over the ceremony so you'll ses his name (Doug) as well as our names. It was a short ceremony, less than 10 minutes. HTH.

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Wedding Ceremony
Doug: “Friends, we have come here today to celebrate love.”
“We see it in the faces of Charlie and Keri who stand before us, and we experience it in our own hearts as well. This love is powerful enough to overcome the entangled knot of life. It is the love that is spoken of in all religions, which kindles our souls with.”

“Charlie and Keri have opened their hearts to one another, and in just a few moments will share their vows of marriage together.”

“We are deeply grateful to them for opening their hearts to us as well, inviting us to witness and share in this precious moment.”

“To this day they bring the fullness of their being as a treasure to share with each other.”

“Their marriage is being entered into reverently, with the recognition of a true union, which they have already discovered. What greater joy is there for two souls than to join together; to strengthen each other in all their endeavors; to support each other through all sorrow, and to share with each other in all gladness?”

“We hope that the words and spirit of our gathering may be filled with a truth that will deepen with the passing years. We hope, too, that the meaning of the vows that Charlie and Keri are about to share with each other will deepen, as they discover the endless possibilities of this life together.”
Theirs is a love which ought not to be tarnished by common events, but which shall flower in deepest adversity and in greatest joy.”

“Charlie, Keri… as the years go by, may you find more and more love in each other, which neither comes nor goes, which neither flowers nor fades, but is always expressing itself anew.”

“May the love you have for one another always remember the radiant power, which first brought you together.”

“Love is stronger than your conflicts, bigger than life’s changes, the miracle always inviting you to learn, to blossom, and to expand. It is to love that you must always return.”


The Vows
Doug: “We will now present the vows”

“Do you Charlie, take Keri to be your lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, and promise to be faithful to until death do you part?” (Charlie says “I Do.”)

“Do you Keri; take Charlie to be your lawfully wedded husband secure in the knowledge that he will be your constant friend, your faithful partner in life, and your one true love?” (Keri says “I Do.”)

RINGS:
Exchange of Rings
Doug: “What tokens of your love and devotion do you have to offer one another?”
(We will then get our rings from our attendants and say “these rings”)

“May these rings be blessed as a symbol of this affectionate unity. Your tow lives are being joined together in one unbroken circle. Wherever you go, may you always return to one another in your love. May you find in one another the love which all men and women yearn. May you grow in understanding and compassion. May the home which you establish together be such a place of sanctuary that all who are here today and others through the years will find their true friends. May these rings, soon to be on your fingers, symbolize the touch or the spirit of love that is in both your hearts.”

“Charlie, in placing the ring on Keri’s left hand, please repeat after me:”
(Each pause in repeating is noted with…)

“I Charlie…
Give you this ring as a pledge of my love…
And as a symbol of our unity.” (Charlie places the ring on Keri’s finger)

Doug: “Keri, in placing the ring on Charlie’s left hand, please repeat after me:”
(Each pause in repeating is noted with…)
“I Keri…give you this ring as a pledge of my love…
and as a symbol of our unity.” (Keri places the ring on Charlie’s finger)


Declaration of Marriage:
Doug: “By the power vested in me, and as witnessed by friends and family, I now pronounce you husband and wife.”

Doug: “Charlie, you may now kiss your bride”

Doug: “Ladies and Gentlemen, please allow me to introduce Mr. and Mrs. Charles ---------.”
 
My fiance and I are just doing the standard 'Till Death Do Us Part' gig. He is so shy, for him to get up in front of an audience and marry me is a huge thing for him. :-)

I'm getting married at Sea Breeze Point on September 27th !! What is your wedding date? We only have 4-ish months to go ! I hope everything is going well for your planning !

My wedding is 9/12/09...can't wait :) was hoping for a disney wedding of my own but will have to settle for a beautiful vermont wedding and a 2 week disneymoon :) what are your plans for the honeymoon?

RangerPooh: thanks so much for your vows- they are beautiful! I may have to incorporate some of your wording in mine. We also want something short and sweet and are having a very close friend perform the ceremony.
 

Your way ahead of me I am getting married three days before you 9-9-09 and I have not even thought of vows. Good for you :)
 
Jason and Dawn's Wedding Ceremony


Who adds their blessing to this marriage by presenting Dawn to Jason?
Her Mother and I do.


Jason and Dawn, I greet you and thank you for the privilege of performing your marriage ceremony. We are gathered here in the presence of your family to witness one of life's greatest moments, the joining of your hearts, bodies and minds in matrimony. Throughout history men and women have sought to recognize the great moments in their lives. On these occasions, they call upon family to share in their joy and happiness. We wish to acknowledge especially those loved ones witnessing from above, who are still with us today and are always in our hearts. Therefore, in the beauty of this setting at Disney's Seabreeze Pointe, you have been invited to help celebrate the love and marriage of Jason and Dawn.


Family, your presence makes this occasion even more special. The love and support that every one of you in this circle have provided are stepping stones to this moment. What each of you has given to them as individuals and as a couple has been integral in bringing them to this stage in their relationship. Jason and Dawn, you give us hope, and we are proud to be your witnesses. We are touched by your happiness; It gives us great joy to celebrate with you.
What greater thing for two people than to feel they are joined together,
to strengthen each other in all labor, to rest on each other in all sorrow,
to help each other in all need, to share all joy,

to be one with each other.


Do you, Jason, take Dawn to be your wife, to love her,
inspire her and cherish her through all of life's challenges and all of life's
joys? Do you pledge to help each other to develop your hearts and minds,
cultivating compassion, generosity, ethics, patience, enthusiasm,
concentration and wisdom as you age and undergo the various ups and
downs of life and to transform them into the path of love, compassion,
joy and equanimity?

I DO
Do you, Dawn, take Jason to be your husband, to love him,
inspire him and cherish him through all of life's challenges and all of life's joys? Do you pledge to help each other to develop your hearts and
minds, cultivating compassion, generosity, ethics, patience, enthusiasm,
concentration and wisdom as you age and undergo the various ups and
downs of life and to transform them into the path of love, compassion,
joy and equanimity?

I DO

Recognizing that the external conditions in life will not always be smooth and that internally your own minds and emotions will sometimes get stuck in negativity. Do you pledge to see all these circumstances as a challenge to help you grow, to open your hearts, to accept yourselves, and each other; and to generate compassion for others who are suffering? Do you pledge to avoid becoming narrow, closed or opinionated, and to help each other to see various sides of situations?
WE DO

By these answers, your love for one another is affirmed.
As a further indication of your decision to become husband and wife,
please look into each other's eyes as you repeat your vows after me.

Your vows will go here

I, Jason, take you, Dawn, to be my lawfully wedded wife,
knowing in my heart that you will be my constant friend,
my faithful partner and my one true love.
On this special day, I give to you,
in the presence of our family and friends,
my solemn promise to stay by your side
as your faithful husband in sickness and in health,
in joy and in sorrow, through all times.
I promise to love you, honor and respect you,
provide for your needs, protect you, comfort you,
grow with you in mind and spirit,
always be open and honest with you,
and cherish you for as long as we both shall live.


I, Dawn, take you, Jason, to be my lawfully wedded husband,
knowing in my heart that you will be my constant friend,
my faithful partner, and my one true love.
On this special day, I give to you
in the presence of our family and friends,
my solemn promise to stay by your side as your faithful wife,
in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow,
through all times.
I promise to love you, honor and respect you,
provide for your needs, protect you, comfort you,
grow with you in mind and spirit,
always be open and honest with you,
and cherish you for as long as we both shall live.


And will you, family, give Jason and Dawn your blessing,
and pledge to them your continuing love and support. If so, please say, "We will."


Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A happy union must be created.
In marriage, the little things are significant.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say I LOVE YOU at least once a day.
It is at no time taking the other for granted.
The courtship should not end with the honeymoon,
it should continue through all the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of Love that gathers in the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,
but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humor.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is providing each other an environment in which to grow.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
the dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner,
It is BEING the right partner.


May I have the rings?

These rings are a circle, the symbol of the earth, the universe and eternity.
Like circles, your rings have no beginning and no ending,
they are tokens of the growing relationship you have come here today to celebrate and confirm.
The wedding ring is the outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites two loyal hearts in partnership.
As often as either of you look upon these rings, may you be reminded of
the promise of love and the joy you feel today.



Jason, will you place this ring on Dawn's finger and repeat after me?
Dawn, I give you this ring as a symbol of my eternal love.
Wear it with love and joy. As this ring has no end, neither shall my love and respect for you.

Dawn, will you place this ring on Jason's finger and repeat after me?
Jason, I give you this ring as a symbol of my eternal love.
Wear it with love and joy. As this ring has no end, neither shall my love and respect for you.

Buddhist Wedding Prayer
Today we promise to dedicate ourselves completely to each other, with body, speech, and mind.
In this life, in every situation, in wealth or poverty, in health or sickness, in happiness or difficulty, we will work to help each other perfectly.
The purpose of our relationship will be to attain enlightenment by perfecting our kindness and compassion toward all sentient beings.

Jason and Dawn, because of the promises you have made to each other in the presence of your family,
the symbols of your love you have exchanged,
it is with great pleasure that I declare,
that you are partners for life.
You may now kiss one another for the first time as husband and wife.

Ladies and gentlemen, I now introduce Jason and Dawn NEW LAST NAME
in their new relationship as husband and wife at the beginning of their "happily ever after"
 
dhay, your ceremony is incredible!!!

Aww thanks!! We used Joann Pessagno and she was incredible. I am not Christian- my personal views are tied to Buddhism so we tried to incorporate a lot of that in our ceremony without it ever being overtly anything but a commitment to each other, and to being better people in general.

And my mom passed away a few years ago so I tried to incorporate some of her memory in there like dad saying "her mother and I do". It was important to me she be represented since I am who I am because of my parents :)
 












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