Hi
How many days are you going for and which Disney condo are you in? are you going around the time of
Free dining?
I ask about how long because for me it would depend on how long i was going for and how many counter services i could bare to eat lol..........I love being able to experience disney food, I have 3boys aged 7,7,9 but have taken them to disney every 2 yrs from the age of 4 months, i dont think that TS with kids is a hassle at all in fact i find it more like speacial family time when we sit and eat with somebody else doing the running around:rotfln and we use the time to chat about the things we loved the most and what we woud like to do again :........theres so many amazing places to eat wether in the parks or in the resorts!
I ask where you are staying as each area has diffrent number of restaurants like board walk area,Epcot area brilliant if you have hoppers! as theres so many places to try,DTD area as that also has plenty of places to dine....
Will you be getting hoppers? as this would also be a small factor-you could visit one park then go eat in another and just do a few rides after or fireworks(depending on park) charecter meals to me with the aged kids i have are priceless IMO as no queing to get pics and autographs!!! and you get more time with each charecter
The kids menu is pretty much the same at most places with the exception of maybe one dish at each place so i would look at menu's too and see what you would eat,I dont eat the most expensive item because i feel i have to on the plan to get my moneys worth i pick it because the most expensive item is normally the one i want

with that in mind i feel i can order that with out thinking should i really have that at that price? then dessert some say its too much food but with a condo or a fridge you can take anything you cant eat bk with you! If your feeling full before dessert then get it boxed up for later they are always happy to do this and im always happy to EAT IT when i get bk to the room.
All in all its the best option for our family,for the reasons above! we dont just get it because its free as the 1st time we went to Disney with me being the parent(how easy it was as a child to just demand demand demand)
we didnt get any sort of DP i didnt even know about them 6yrs ago lol as id always stayed off site with my parents!!
we ended up spending nearly all our money on food! and we didnt do that many meals as i never knew about booking ADRS

i had not found this site yet..... and so the next time it was our wedding and honeymoon we made sure to buy the
DDP for all the family all i can say was WOW it was soooo brilliant not having to spend our money all on food and to book so many amazing places and eat all that great food i was in heaven so was our wedding

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we agreed after then (dh and I) that we would never do Disney again without the DDP (not QDP) and when we booked in 2010 it was FREE and it is again for us this yr!
hope this helped sorry for the long post once i talk Disney i dont stop!!