well, just to let you all know what happened..
I ordered the upgrade package (I had an alternate vendor for my weddings and didn't want a honeymoon package with 2 pictures) for an extra fifty dollars. So, I should have gotten 20 photos. I received 2 photos in the mail. I was very disappointed. So, she said she was going to have a 20 proof folio sent to me, but I have not yet received it.
Those of you doing the upgrade might want to watch this and maybe remind the photographer or something when you get your pictures done. Or, better yet, email your person and remind them after you return from your honeymoon.
Thanks for the email! I will let you know if everything works out ok!