I could have written this exact post! As a matter of fact, I had planned to!DVCLiz said:DD17 will be going to college next year - so what kinds of things will she need that I could get her for Christmas? I don't know where she's going, so I'm not sure about rules for things like microwaves, etc. I'm also going to wait and get her a laptop based on the specifications of her school, when we know what it is!!!! Any ideas for thigns your new college students really liked or needed? Or, for that matter, any other ideas for the teen who has most of the "things" like Ipods, cell phones, etc.???
) She's always been extremely independent, and for the last couple of years, has been drooling over the Linens & Things and Target "dorm" collections. So, while some people may lean toward giving things for use now, I know that my DD would be THRILLED with things for college. (Last April she went to Spain, so last Christmas we focused on gifts for that trip, and she was VERY happy with what she got.) At the same time, I understand what someone else said about roommates coordinating some of their purchases (right down to colors). Still, we're leaning toward getting her a TV (small and with earphones) because even if the roommate has one, I think she'd like her own.
) and Target. Her birthday is at the end of August, so we can get more specific then.MaryAnnDVC said:I could have written this exact post! As a matter of fact, I had planned to!
There's a lot of good info on this thread that I had already learned along the way, and it's good to see what I've heard is true! I too thought "laptop", until I heard from a couple of sources to wait until she's at college since there may be specs/discounts/etc. I also had thought a mini-fridge, and then we visited one college that doesn't allow them...you need to rent, from them, what someone else on this thread called a "microfridge"...a combo microwave and refrigerator, the reason being the university is so large, that it would overload the circuits if many people used both a microwave and a mini-fridge; this way, while the microwave is being used, the refrigerator goes off, and vice versa.
DD has been talking about going away to college since she first found out college existed, in nursery school! (From her then recently graduated teacher, Miss Cindy.) She's always been extremely independent, and for the last couple of years, has been drooling over the Linens & Things and Target "dorm" collections. So, while some people may lean toward giving things for use now, I know that my DD would be THRILLED with things for college. (Last April she went to Spain, so last Christmas we focused on gifts for that trip, and she was VERY happy with what she got.) At the same time, I understand what someone else said about roommates coordinating some of their purchases (right down to colors). Still, we're leaning toward getting her a TV (small and with earphones) because even if the roommate has one, I think she'd like her own.
Depending on what actual gifts we end up getting, I'll probably throw in some gift cards for Linens & Things (and keep her supplied with those 20% off coupons along the way) and Target. Her birthday is at the end of August, so we can get more specific then.
As far as the "now" gift of clothes...DD has been working for two years now, and she's got so many clothes, she doesn't need any more! As a matter of fact, she better do some cleaning out of whatever she doesn't take with her when she goes.
I don't expect my DD to get a lot of graduation gifts. I'm the youngest of my generation, so all my older relatives (sibs, cousins) have lots of kids AND grandchildren; we long ago passed on exchanging gifts except among a very few of us.
Good point. I was not at all appreciative of the luggage I received for Christmas my senior year of high school. I really did interpurt it as - "see ya".KarenC said:While I too wanted to get a jumpstart on outfitting my daughter for college the Christmas before her graduation, she wasn't there yet. Careful that you don't send a message that sounds like "Merry Christmas, can't wait til you're outta here" to your daughter. If you get her something she needs for college, make sure it's something she can use now.
My mother was just being practical & I used it for many years to come. 
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flights?!?!?!?). I'm leaning towards that as the "big" gift. I think I'll make a "college box" for her, and put a bunch of little things in it from your list. Thanks!
She's been talking about picking out new towels for the last couple of years. I guess it's like "playing house". I'll let her pick them out herself, since they're obviously so important to her!
)! I told her about the luggage discussion here, and she said "are you kidding?!"