Need an opinion from the guys..

[goin2disneyagain]

Guys, if your girlfriend moved and you wouldn't get to see her more than once or twice a year would you stick it out or move on?

 

[FroggyinArk]

honestly, i would have to really examine the relationship. if i was serious about it, andso was she, i would try to make it work. if it wasnt that serious, or i was not that sure about it, i would probably move on.

 

[N.Bailey]

It would depend on how I'd feel about the person who moved. If it's a fairly new relationship, I don't think you have much of a chance of it being successful. If it's the person you think you'll marry, well then, you've got choices to make.

 

[goin2disneyagain]

A little more info maybe, if the guy is 19.

 

[N.Bailey]

A little more info maybe, if the guy is 19.

I don't think age has anything to do with it. I think how the guy feels about this woman is the key.

 

[Keli]

What's your age? How long would this relationship need to be long distance? If you are talking about going to different colleges, well, that's a time of great change in most people's lives and often in themselves.

The odds of a relationship going forward under those kinds of circumstances isn't good and I wouldn't try it unless I was already deeply committed to the relationship before the move happened.

 

[BillSears]

I'd have to break up unless it was a very temporary thing. Seeing someone once or twice a year is not a relationship.

 

[bsmcneil]

Having a similar situation except i'm the one moving...

right now, we're unsure of how the next 4 years will play out (the length of my grad school) - but we've been together over a year as of now and want to see where we can go with it.

 

[palmtreegirl]

Is this related to this thread?

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1117206&page=1&pp=15

If so, I think you need to move on, sounds like this guys playing you big time.