I would choose, in this order:
AKL
Beach Club
Wilderness Lodge
I haven't stayed at the Swan/Dolphin and couldn't "place" it.
I like the theme at AKL a lot. And IMO, it carries its theme throughout the hotel better than any other resort. The staff there is, by and large, amazing. Better than any other WDW hotel, IMO. I like to look at the animals, but I'd stay there without them, that's for sure. If AKL were on the monorail, I doubt I'd ever stay anywhere else.
I like the theme at the Beach Club and they have the best valet on property - plus it is close to Epcot's World Showcase, where I spend a lot of time (and I don't mind walking.) It is very bright, including the rooms - and the rooms have lifeguard Mickey lamps. That gets me every time. I like being there a lot, feel most at home there, but there isn't a lunch restaurant, it isn't on the monorail, and I don't like the pool.
WL would be my distant third. I like WL, it's gorgeous. But the foliage is similar to what I see all the time (lacks that "fun to come back to" thing"), the valet people suck almost as badly as those at the Contemporary and, I dunno, aside from the lobby and restaurants, I'm not all that jazzed about the way they've themed the place. Excellent gift shop, though.