I don't know why CR gets such a bad rap. To me it is full of energy and Disney Magic. It is truly Mickey's resort! Yes, the decor in the rooms may be a bit bright, but that didn't bother me... better than dark and drab! Your baby will love the character meals, but if you are going to one, make sure you have introduced her to the characters in the parks beforehand. Many one year olds are frightened by those big wierd creatures coming after them. They don't really understand the whole concept yet, and some just never do. Also, make your PS as early as possible for Chef Mickey's because it starts booking a 90 days ahead and can be VERY difficult to get in.
I also like the idea that you are only a short walk to the Magic Kingdom, so no waiting for the monorail, if you don't want to!
They have a small playground over by the South wing, and you can always walk her down to the beach and stick her toes in the sand!
When making your reservation request a Park view in the tower, so you will be able to see the fireworks over the castle, but please... you must still see Wishes from inside Magic Kingdom. It is just spectacular, and so much is lost by not being there... the accompanying music, the lower fireworks, and the whole storyline.
I think for what you are looking for, this will be a much better fit than Wilderness Lodge. My 2nd choice for you would be Polynesian Lagoon/Castle view. Both places will be expensive, but if that is no issue, GO FOR IT!
