Did I miss why Poly isn't on your list? It seems to have everything you want - romantic, quiet (in my experience), view of Wishes, doesn't remind you of home ...
But between BWI and WL I'd say you can't really go wrong with either. I'd go with which one "speaks" to you more as they really are very different. Since it sounds like nightlife and easy access to the parks is high on your list then I'd go with BWI - it couldn't be easier to get to EC and even DHS is just a (very pretty) walk away.
But between BWI and WL I'd say you can't really go wrong with either. I'd go with which one "speaks" to you more as they really are very different. Since it sounds like nightlife and easy access to the parks is high on your list then I'd go with BWI - it couldn't be easier to get to EC and even DHS is just a (very pretty) walk away.