My Sister Hates Being a Mother

[Nutsy]

I feel sorry for all involved here. The baby who didn't ask to be brought into this world, the parents of the baby, who should really have sorted out their wishes a little better before a pregnancy did occur. For the grandparents, who have to sit back & watch & be heartbroken at what is happening & for you the Aunt who is so far away, but still a part of all this. So terribly sad for all of you.

I do hope baby & co become a family (proper with two loving parents) soon.

Your sis sounds like she is very independant & would much rather a career than a child. Unfortuately she is not alone in that, but most women who feel that way, either don't marry or don't under any circumstances have children.

I have a girlfriend who is of the same mind........"no kids for me". She married eventually to a guy who loves kids, but is willing to go without if it is not what she really wants. She wants a career rather than a family to look after.

Each to their own, but your sis really does need to talk to someone about how she is feeling & why she agreed in the first place to have a child if she is not that way inclined.

I'm so sorry to hear this. Makes me mad & sad at the same time.

Keep us posted on the progress please.