tonilea
<font color=blue>I hope I don't regret this...<br>
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It's something called "holding certain people to higher standards" (as a retired military person, I tend to do that with servicemembers and cops) -- that's what seperates them from other professions. If they don't want to be held to that standard, I'm sure they can find a career, elsewhere.
I agree law enforcement should be held to a higher standard, but you described it as an accident, not something where he or she was driving like a maniac. It probably even holds true for LEO families - DH is a cop, and I am very concious of how I drive. Full stops at every stop sign, etc. I don't want anyone thinking that I think I can do whatever I want because DH is a cop. KWIM.
Seems to me you may have an LEO in your family/household -- yes, they, along with the rest of us make mistakes. But you'll have to forgive me for not being so understanding, as we had a similar problem involving a State Trooper in our local area, recently.
As I cannot seem to make a hyperlink at the moment, go to http://www.stltoday.com/news/local/...cle_411f2abe-ff3b-56fe-9b4e-f016d4b12e6b.html and try telling Kim Schlau and Brian Uhl "these guys make mistakes".
That wasn't a mistake, that was reckless endangerment. It was crazy. It was alot of things, but IMO it was not an accident.
You must've missed the part that this was his personal vehicle, and he was on his way home from work. The weather in this area hasn't been great over the past few weeks, meaning someone in his position needs to excercise more caution than usual. Despite what some may think, cops aren't invincible...they, too, need to slow down... I didn't miss the part about it being his personal vehicle and I agree, if he was driving too fast for conditions he should have slowed down.
The reason I am passionate about this is that had my 4 year-old son been in the back seat of the car (my wife was on her way from work to his daycare to pick him up), the story I am sharing with you, today could've been far, far uglier.
I get your anger at your child being in danger. We were almost involved in a DWI wreck - I was on the phone w/ 911 and the drunk in front of us hit a SUV being trailered by an RV on a very narrow Ozarks road. We were almost sideswiped by the SUV/trailer. The drunk didn't even stop. We followed to a convience station and I wanted to beat the living daylights out of that woman for putting my 3 month old baby in danger!
I hope you are properly compensated by his insurance!