Well here's an update...
I'm sorry I didn't update last night, but between the swollen fingers, prednisone and pain pills I couldn't type. I think my steroid shots from yesterday and the prednisone pills kicked in today. I am feeling semi-human again. Lupus sucks. I am lucky though this is the first major flare in 8 years or so.
Last night the cops were there. They pulled in knocked on the door and the 3 men (dad & sons) were in the front yard presenting what I assume were driver's licenses. I assume the mom was not home as she was not in the front yard.
The cop remained there for 20-30 minutes and appeared to write a ticket before leaving. The whole thing was weird. I mean why would the cops just show up and write a ticket? No one was arrested.
DH was gone and I couldn't navigate the front porch steps to sit out there and listen. I couldn't hear from in the house. I did make dd10 open the front windows, but I still couldn't hear.
Someone asked about the drop off. We have seen it happen in the morning and the evening, but on different days. It is seemingly random.
So now we have weird drop offs and cops. It's crazy around here!