Both my DD4 and DD2 are afraid of fireworks, too. For the fireworks show last night, I brought along DD4's FP3 player (Fisher Price's version of an MP3) and my IPod (for DD2) for them to listen to during the fireworks. It worked like a charm for DD4! She still sat in her daddy's lap, but she sang out loud during the entire 30 min show- and told me "this is fun!" and asked me if the next time she watched fireworks if she could bring the FP3 player again! It did not work for DD2, however. She curled up and went to sleep on my lap, with her hands on her ears and a blanket over her head. The music probably wasn't interesting for her. It was a last minute thought since we didn't have 2 FP3 players with kid's music. I'm thinking of getting another FP3 before Disney. It might be worth a try!