My husband wants me to be fat- vent

[Gisele]

omg!

 

[pooh2001]

I was a size 6 when I got married
Now after 30 years of marriage I am a size 12
I am 5' 3" and 150 pounds.
I am working on getting to 140 pounds and maybe a size 10
I eat veggies and fruits during the day with a PB&J or turkey sandwich.
Breakfast is an English muffin with no salt butter.
Dinner is with my family - plain steamed veggies with chicken, burgers, or pork chops.
Not exactly a diet, but I do get at least 4 servings of fruit and veggies a day.

 

[Elle23]

My husband is a “twig and berry” eater so I never, ever have to worry about him sabotaging me.

I sabotage myself just fine...

 

[jdb in AZ]

Another zombie post. OP was last seen around here four years ago.

 

[Elle23]

Another zombie post. OP was last seen around here four years ago.

Oops!

I wonder if she ever lost the weight?

 

[Snowflakey]

Another zombie post. OP was last seen around here four years ago.

Probably best then as I was going to say quit counting on your DH to make your food and do it yourself.

 

[JaxDad]

Oops!

I wonder if she ever lost the weight?

Maybe she lost a quick couple hundred pounds by ditching the husband...

 

[tinkerbellandeeyor]

Pp made a great point I am finally learning to cook and I can look and ask for recipes that are good for me and I know DH wont eat my rabbit food he can have all the burgers and pizzas he wants

I can have my grilled chicken and veggies

 

[bellebud]

My step-dad was always trying to fatten up my mom. He just liked bigger women.

 

[tinkerbellandeeyor]

My step-dad was always trying to fatten up my mom. He just liked bigger women.

I wonder if my dh is the same way I asked if I can make my own meals he said no but my avatar is my current photo so I can kida see his point but I want to be healthy

 

[bellebud]

I wonder if my dh is the same way I asked if I can make my own meals he said no but my avatar is my current photo so I can kida see his point but I want to be healthy

You look great in your photo! My mom was always 'yelling' (not really yelling) at my step-dad about it. He'd just laugh. She didn't want to be that big, just curvy and healthy. His ex-wife was a really large woman, and he just loved it! Everyone likes something different.

 

[kimblebee]

I wonder if my dh is the same way I asked if I can make my own meals he said no but my avatar is my current photo so I can kida see his point but I want to be healthy

Is that a new avi Tink? You look great! You look really happy too.

 

[tinkerbellandeeyor]

Is that a new avi Tink? You look great! You look really happy too.

Yes and I am very happy

 

[jaiminee krikit]

DH is one of the reasons I won’t diet. He’s the same way. He’ll prepare bad foods or suggest DQ multiple times a week. He’s diabetic and snacks a lot. But his snacks are typically cookies or candy and it drives me crazy. “I need to eat” he’ll tell me. I’ll tell him to have an apple or some crackers. “I want a cookie”. He’s like a child.