Last night I finally went over my trip binder with DH. I wanted him to know what each days plans are so he can take a few months to prepare himself.

I asked him afterward if he could handle it. He said, "I hope so."
This is what our plans look like now:
Day one: We will arrive at WDW and check in. (Technically day two of vacation because we will be driving down.. but I'm only counting 'disney days'.) We will rest and relax, take time to organize the room, check out the shop and food court, maybe swim.
Day two: We will be heading over to DHS to hopefully ride Toy Story Mania, for DH to ride TOT and RnR and to do a few other things that my parents don't have on the top of their DHS list such as the parade, Disney playhouse, etc. We will eat lunch somewhere.
Then we will head back to the room in early afternoon to relax and freshen up for our dinner that night at the Grand Floridian at Narcooses. We will try to explore the beach a little this night and hopefully see the water pageant and maybe wishes if they are doing it this night.
Day three: Sleep in! Explore the resort doing all the things that Pop has to offer.. the dances in classic hall, big wheels, twister, etc. We will spend a good part of the day swimming if the weather is good.
We are thinking in the late afternoon we may try to go around seeing other resorts just for fun.. AKL, Poly, POR and FQ, to see animals, decorations and grounds but we may end up just going to AKL to try to see animals.
No real plans for meals. We'll just do whatever.
Day four: Head over to Grand Floridian again for the Mary Poppins breakfast at 1900 Park Fare. After that head back over to Pop and do the scavenger hunt. Then relax and wait for my parents to get there and surprise Abi.
As soon as they are settled it we plan on all going over to the boardwalk to explore and to see the Yacht club and beach club resorts and stop in at Beaches and Cream to try the Kitchen sink. Depending on how late it is at this point and how we all feel we may ride the boat over to Epcot and watch Illuminations or we may just go back to the room.
Day five: Up and over to Epcot early for the Akershus breakfast. We will probably have a few hours in between breakfast and when the WS opens so we are going to try to get in Soarin and the Imagination pavilion until 11 and then start our way around WS. We plan on spending the rest of the day doing that having our CS meals along the way and then back to the resort when we are done with all of them- if we can get through them all.
Day six: Over to MK early for breakfast at Crystal Palace. As soon as we get out of there we will be heading over to Dumbo. We will spend the next few hours in Fantasyland hitting all the rides and maybe lunch. We may do the parade. Then we will do Tomorrowland. Depending on the time we may spend some time on Main street as we exit or we may save it for another day. We will then leave to the Contemporary for dinner at Chef Mickeys. Then back to Pop.
Day seven: Back over to MK for rope drop. head straight to BTMM and Splash Mountain. We will spend the entire morning/ early afternoon in Frontierland and Adventureland. We may do the parade if we haven't seen it yet. We will then do Liberty Square area and dinner at Liberty Tree Tavern. We will do spectro or electrical parade (depending on what they have) if we can but it may interfere with dinner time. Then if we haven't seen Wishes (the second day from Narcooses) we will stay for that. Then back to Pop.
Day eight: Over to Animal Kingdom for rope drop. Go back and do the safari and then take our time exploring Africa and Asia. Get to Dinoland and DH and I will ride Dinosaur while mom and dad take the girls to the boneyard. We will have lunch there. See Finding Nemo. Then over the the tree of life and Tough to be a bug. Then over to Lion King show depending on when it starts and see the Camp Minnie/Mickey area. Check out the oasis on our way out.
Go over to the Wilderness Lodge to check out the decorations and have dinner at Whispering Canyon Cafe. Back to Pop.
Day nine: Sleep in. Finally!

Well, probably this will be my mom and dad and Doug sleeping in while I get up with our little early risers and go outside to play or something.
We will just have a slow and easy morning and head over to Downtown disney for lunch at Earl of sandwich and shopping for the afternoon. Back to pop and my mom and I will probably head back over to DDD to the movie theater to go see the new Harry Potter movie while the guys get the girls to bed.
Day ten: Over to DHS again, this time with the parents. We will hit up mainly the shows and any rides/attractions we haven't seen although we may try to do TSM again if we love it and think my parents would like it. We want to go to Pizza planet for lunch and we want to stay for Fantasmic and then have a res. at Sci Fi afterward. Then back to Pop.
Day eleven: Over to Epcot. We will do/see all the things in Future world we didn't get to on the first day. Dinner at Coral Reef. Then we will try to get into CP but may just end up hanging out close by and listening. We will watch Illuminations if we haven't seen it already.
Day twelve: DD 5th birthday

We will make our way over to MK early for her BBB appointment and then breakfast at CRT. We will then do whatever she wants to do and anything we haven't done yet that we wanted to. I imagine we will spend some time in Fantasyland and shops! Then we will leave for dinner at 1900 Park Fare back at the Grand Floridian. After that we will head back to Pop for a little birthday party in the room.
Day thirteen: leave early to drive up to Islands of Adventure. See the Wizarding World of Harry Potter, then do Jurassic Park and Suess Landing. Depending on time, see if there are any other attractions we want to do. Back to Pop - not too late. Dinner on way back probably.
After the girls are in bed or at least in pjs getting ready for it DH and I will leave them with the grandparents (taking advantage of having babysitters!) and head out to celebrate our anniversary. Our seventh anniversary will be 5 days later. We will either go to a park that has EMH and ride some rides alone or go to the theater to see Tron or the new Narnia.
Day fourteen: sleep in, have a slow morning, say goodbye to my parents and Disney world

and head home. They will be flying home to Utah this day as well.
So there you have it. A VERY full fourteen days but I think we will have a pretty slow pace in the parks and that will make up for doing so much. I hope. Luckily our daughters are early risers, they go to bed early but they are okay when they have to stay up later, and they both have pretty laid back personalities as well as enjoy being out and about.