Hosting a Chinese student this year and have had many obstacles with her since she arrived. From the very beginning we noticed she was very different. I was suspicious she had some sort of disability or mental illness but couldn't put my finger on it. I was waffling between personality disorder, bi polar or Asperger Syndrome. At the same time I didn't know if the behavior was a cultural thing. She would hardly ever smile, did not listen well to rules in the house, was ALWAYS late getting ready in the morning, she moved so slow like a snail. She also spoke in a very monotone voice with no expression. She was super super moody, emotional, defensive, impatient, and un excitable. She seemed to be in her own world most times not really being aware of her surroundings. In the drive to school in the morning she would stare straight out the front window not noticing anything out the windows. She just seemed very disinterested in the world around her. Another big thing was her lack of empathy for others. She had a few emotional outbursts as well and when I had to reprimand her about being on time for school she would just cry. She was very dramatic too. Finally I found out that she is autistic. She came here on Exchange with a boy who is the son of her dads business colleague. The boy told his host parent that my student is Autistic when she asked him why he is being forced to escort her home to China for Christmas break. When I asked a relative I am in contact with about this, she denied it. I guess from what I am learning it is very shameful in Chinese culture to the family to have a less than perfect child. Makes me so sad, and at the same time furious that they would just send their daughter 1/2 way across the globe to be someone else's responsibility. She is here for her High School career then College. I cannot imagine her ever surviving on her own here, she is so high maintenance. I may not be able to keep hosting her because I have 2 boys of adolescent age that may be triggers for her behaviors. She does not like not being the center of attention nor does she like it if they are using the bathroom when she wants to. She gets very frustrated and doesn't understand our humor or sarcasm. I feel very sorry for her but at the same time I am not trained to handle this situation. Anyone have any advice for me?