My dates with "The Doc"

minniepumpernickel

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I'm putting this on late on a Sun. night and maybe nobody will read it anyway.

I am dating the nicest guy right now. We hardly know each other so who knows if it will work out. He really is a doctor, and he works with elderly patients in a nursing home. So he's got to be nice to do that right? He has the blueist eyes, and a very kind, calm manner.

So far our dates have been just doing the usual stuff, like dinners, festivals a movie and icecream. He likes to talk a lot, which is great for me because I don't like to talk that much.

He's been such a perfect gentleman so far, holding open all of the doors, etc. We seem to have a lot in common with lifestyles and hobbies and that kind of thing. He also doesn't take life too seriously, and he doesn't act superior at all, or snobby.

What I am wondering is how long do you think it takes to realize you have chemistry with someone? When did you know if your spouse, SO or BF was really a potential long- term partner. I'm so bad at relating to other people sometimes.

I'll check back tomorrrow, thanks!:sunny:
 
Honestly, with Otto I knew immediately that he was *THE ONE*. There were sparks flying and lots of chemistry from the beginning, but the best thing we ever did was spend hours talking before we went any further. He is absolutely my best friend, and we have been married almost 13 years. I will say, however, that we got married 10 months after we met, and it was the best thing we have ever done!!
 
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Yippy for you! Good luck and trust your gut!
 
When I first met my DH, I liked him, thought he was a great guy with a great personality, beautiful blue eyes, and we had a lot of fun together.

I can't say it was love at first sight, but I probably knew within 6-8 months that he was the one.

He says he knew at first sight with me!

Take your time, enjoy spending time with a nice gentleman, and see where it leads. Don't be too quick to want it to be "the one". Love develops slowly usually.
 

Minniepumpernickel, it took many dates, some group dates some alone before either of us knew anything.

We simply became friends first, then good friends and from there realized we had a lot in common and that we LIKED each other. LOL

Don't rush things and just enjoy his company. He sounds like a nice man. :)
 
Sounds very exciting & I hope you keep us filled in on this new man in your life!!

As for my DH & I, as soon as I spotted him, he made my heart skip a beat! ::yes:: I guess he felt the same too since he asked for my phone number shortly after meeting me. We had our first date 5 days later but from our first date, I knew there was something strong & special between us. He told me he was falling in love with me on our first date :Pinkbounc . He proposed to me 2 weeks later & I accepted. Of course, we didn't marry till 1.5 years later (just in case I found a skeleton in his closet!) We've been happily married for a little over 10 years now.

Hey, did you see my post about "My husband left me" ? It could be a few pages back by now!
 
Thanks so much for responding! I love to hear about the good stories. :D

He just called me right after I posted this. He thought maybe we could get togethor some evening during this week. It's kind of hard for me because I am so used to being a loner and doing my own thing.

Thanks again for the replies!:sunny:
 
No sage advice Minnie; just wanted to wish you luck and say I hope this turns into something good for ya!!

:) :) :)
 
Willy you are going to love this! He wants to get tickets to see Bruce! He is going to be in Philly, right? Are you and Saffron going? If so lets all look for each other! :D

Mishetta- I was afraid to click on that post, but I'm glad that you pointed it out to me. I'm so glad that I read it. :sunny:
 
You forgot to mention the all-important information - does he love Disney???? :crazy: :teeth:

I knew the moment I laid eyes on DH that I HAD to date him and knew he was "the one" within a month. We married 3.5 years later and just celebrated 19 years of marriage. He's still my best friend!

Best wishes for wherever this leads you!!
 
Sometimes it takes time, other times it doesn't. Don't be in a hurry. I hope it works out for you. :D
 
I knew all about your date plans. So, he is chatty, but we knew that from talking on the phone for 2 1/2 hours;)

At least he has good taste in music..and very romantic eyes.:smooth: YOu know he looks yummy in a bathing suit:tongue:

You should try having a date during the week. It will be good to see if you would rather your alone time or you like hanging with him more. And you should have him go out with your friends. Since we can only hear about him on the boards and they can judge in person. Hopefully they are honest and would tell you if they dont like him for you..and why.;)
 
My advice, for what it's worth, be yourself, relax and have fun. Good luck with it all.
 
Glad you are enjoying his company!

I knew DH quite some time before any sparks flew. In fact, I didn't care for him when we first met. We've been married 17 years now! Good luck--just enjoy!
 
Every situation and person is different, which is why it's such a gift to find someone who you enjoy spending time with (and who enjoys spending time with you). He sounds great!
 
Oh my gosh! I love these replies! :sunny:

I was just a little worried because I'm kind of quiet in real life, and it takes me a little while to feel comfortable with people.

I do need to have my friends meet him. That is a good way to see what other people's opinions are. I would like to meet his friends too.

I don't know if he is a Disney lover eek! he does love to travel and has been to several places that I haven't. He has actually been to The Galapagos. He loves snorkeling and adventure travel.

Thanks you guys! I hate to admit it, but I'm kind of insecure when it comes to this stuff!:cool:
 
Oh my gosh! I love these replies! :sunny:

I was just a little worried because I'm kind of quiet in real life, and it takes me a little while to feel comfortable with people.

I do need to have my friends meet him. That is a good way to see what other people's opinions are. I would like to meet his friends too.

I don't know if he is a Disney lover eek! he does love to travel and has been to several places that I haven't. He has actually been to The Galapagos. He loves snorkeling and adventure travel.

Thanks you guys! I hate to admit it, but I'm kind of insecure when it comes to this stuff!:cool:
 
Minnie,

He sounds great. Go with your gut as others have said. If it gets serious, ask me about the pros and cons of marrying a doctor...;)

Good Luck!
 












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