Hello Gail and Nutsy,
I am so sorry for both of your losses, and send prayers and pixie dust to both of you. Gail, I think your dad would want you to go to WDW, to a place we all enjoy so much. I say this because my mom died on January 9, 2000, but instead of going to the hospital to see her on January 8, I went to see the Philadelphia Kixx indoor soccer team play. I was told later by my SIL that Mom was absolutely thrilled that I did this, something that I like to do. Gail, if your dad was like my mom, he would have wanted you in WDW, not moping in your house. Go!!
Jim