My crazy new housemate!

florida-again

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My new housemate is probably one of the nicest, chattiest people I've ever met. She's a total pleasure to live with and I'm glad she's my housemate.... :sunny:

BUT

She has some strange boundary 'issues'! Tell me what you think of this guys.... :confused3
(now keep in mind we've only lived together a few weeks and barely knew each other before that)

I came home from a trip to see my family and as a 'surprise' she's tidied my room for me. Now none of my friends ever come in my room, I'm very private. But not only had she gone into my room, she'd tidied everything right down to folding my dirty underwear and moving my retainers!
(I was actually very touched by this, but very weirded out too!)
:earseek: :earseek: :earseek: :earseek:
Then me and BF were in my room and she came in in her BRA! and she's VERY curvey. In front of me, no problem, but in her undies in front of BF???? Luckily I spotted her before he did and told him she was in her underwear and not to turn around!
:blush: :blush: :blush:

Another couple of times if me or my housemates have been in the bathroom and left the door open (if we're not naked of course!) she will come in without knocking and start to brush her teeth or whatever! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Now I have to say, I like this girl so much that I can excuse her weird behaviour, I think it's quite quirky....but it is a bit strange right????
 
I'd say, "Keep your clothes on, and knock before you enter the bathroom, and we'll be fine".
 
She seems very open, if you have a problem with it, talk to her about it.

I have never had a roommate come in and clean my room though - that is a bit weird.
 
Crazoo said:
She seems very open, if you have a problem with it, talk to her about it.

I have never had a roommate come in and clean my room though - that is a bit weird.
I don't have a problem with it as such, I'm slowly getting used to it! She's so sweet so it's easy to forgive the craziness.

I just wondered if others would be weirded out by this too!
 

I'd be weirded out and I'd have to speak up. I have very tall, wide boundaries set in steele. LOL
 
It's nice that you don't have a problem with it. I definately would. My "personal space" is very important to me and would be off limits to anyone.
 
florida-again said:
Another couple of times if me or my housemates have been in the bathroom and left the door open (if we're not naked of course!) she will come in without knocking and start to brush her teeth or whatever! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

How can she knock if the door is open :confused3 ? Or am I misunderstanding?

If it continues it may start to bother you so you might want to bring it up to her casually when the timing is right.
 
Buckalew11 said:
I'd be weirded out and I'd have to speak up. I have very tall, wide boundaries set in steele. LOL

Me too. Your thread title says it all- "crazy". :earseek:
 
florida-again said:
But not only had she gone into my room, she'd tidied everything right down to folding my dirty underwear and moving my retainers!
I know you are making this up!
 
florida-again said:
But not only had she gone into my room, she'd tidied everything right down to folding my dirty underwear and moving my retainers!

Why would one fold DIRTY underwear????!!!!! On second thought, nevermind fold - why would she even be touching your dirty underwear!!!!???? :earseek: :earseek: :earseek:
 
My mom once rearranged my dishes and silverware in the kitchen & it really mademe mad .Going into my bedroom & rearranging would make me ballistic!
 
The dirty underwear skeeves me out....

I would have problems with that part... If she came in, in her bra in front of my DH when we were still dating. I would have been livid. I would have spoken to her about it.

Just me...
 
Have you ever seen the movie "Single White Female"???? :rotfl2:

I'm just kidding....

Seriously, though....there are some people who are just more "open" than others....
 
grinningghost....

beat you to it by that much!! :cool1:
 
florida-again said:
NO! What is it about??? :confused3


You need to rent the movie. Watch it together with your roomie... :rotfl:

Seriously, it's about a girl who takes in a female roommate. The new roomie seems perfect.....but then starts dressing just like the other one.....then takes on the same personality....starts trying to control her life.....

It's kind of a scary/suspense kind of movie.
 

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