I have been through so many dental issues of my husbands and my kids over the years oh and my mom too. I have tons of advice and knowledge to share. My DH has horrible teeth it was a genetic thing as he is obsessed with brushing and flossing. He has been on his own since 18 with no help. In fact when I first met him one of his front teeth was rotted. His grandma begged me to have him get it fixed before the wedding so he did with my family dentist. No real insurance so that was our honeymoon in his mouth. He had a downpaynent on a house put in his mouth by that dentist and yes I do believe it was necessary. But still over the years he k kept getting abcesses and more and more dental worj done by other dentists including an implant by a fancy dentist out in an exclusive area of Orange County. They played games and frauded our insurance to help pay for it, which I will get back to.
After my husband genetics I was super vigilant about my kids dental care. My son woke up one day with his entire face swollen up so I took him to an MD who claimesd he must of been hit with something. I knew he hadn't and by gut instinct swung by the dentist and he had ground his teeth so bad he needed a pulpotomy, (paby root canal) Since he was over age 5 my insurance wouldn't pay to put him under.
Then my oldest daughter got in a razor
scooter accident and knocked out 8 teeth 2 of tham permanent. Our huge mistake was taking her to the er because there was blood everywhere we thought that needed to be looked at first. They had her sit in the waiting room and never told my husband to put her teeth in milk. She got referred to loma linda school of dentistry where they worked hours on her to save her teeth. They could only save one and she wore the same retainer until she had braces put on. I got the best darn ortho money could buy and even bypassed any insurance discount to get her the best He graduated from Harvard. He has worked with us since she was about 5 years old. Within the last 6 months between he, my daughter and I we decided to move the teeth rather then do an implant. I left it up to her, I would of paid whatever it took to make her happy, not an issue. He is very honest and did my sons braces as well but he is also out in orange county an hour away.
But after her accident we got such crappy care from our insurance dental plan that I ultimately sought out the one in OC that played games with our insurance and would bill them for services they never gave. I liked them but have found out how much money they had been making off us in unnecesary work. I asked about my sons wisdom teeth and they said my insurance didn't cover it. I found a new dentist by accident when I needed my teeth whitened right away. She took my insurance and could see me the same day. I LOVED her, so calming and for the first time in years I wasn't told I didn't needed a deep cleaning like I was at all the others. I ended up having to pay for my cleaning as the other dentist had billed my insurance for one I didn't recieve. I took all my kids in and low and behold for the first time in years they didn't have cavities either!! They all loved her too. I can't wait to get my husband in. Oh and she ran my insurance and wisdom teeth removal is covered 90 percent and alot of other procedures are covered as well. I did opt for the highest level of dental coverage at my husbands work but this one actually pays for stuff.
So I have been on every side of the coin. Desperately needing work asap, being lied to and also not having good coverage. So if you feel anything is hinky or want a second opinion see if you have a dental school in your area. They literally worked on my daughter for about 5 hours non stop and I think I paid 500 bucks in payments, nothing due up front. I am not afraid or unwilling to pay the bucks to get it done I am just a bit more skeptical now. I also paid for about 5 crowns for my mom since she is on medical/medicare etc and now I am questioning whether she even needed that at all? You really do have to look out for yourself some of these guys are sheisters!!