since this is our entire wedding "theme" i can share what i've started for our playlists - essentially we are using more "classic" disney music (movies, attractions, et.) and using mostly instrumental versions. think cinderella, peter pan yes of course alice herself! and also the tiki room, carousel of progress.... theres a great CD out there of "music from club 33" that is "parlor music" versions of pirates, even "grim grinning ghosts!". also i highly recommend fantasyland backround music from any park!