If it will be just the two of you dining, Victoria and Alberts...no contest.
If your daughter will be along, I'd choose Citricos, California Grill, Narcoossee's or Jiko. California Grill and Narcoossee's can both be loud but the views make up for it. Service and food are great at all four. All four have plenty of WDW magic IMO.
Congratulations!