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[jamsmom]

Jim comes home today after being in Hawaii with his GrandDad for almost 2 months. I am quite apprehensive about his coming home considering through almost every chat we have had since he has been gone that somehow he still brings up his strong hatred towards certain things (Republicans and Christians). I am trying my best to be open minded and respect his views to hopefully not encourage any outburst.

I am finally at a point that once I move out (when I get a full-time job), it will not be because he wants me to, but rather because I want to and know it is best for me in SOOOO MANY ways!! I still wish Jim the very best and hope that he can find someone that will make him happy. I am just scared that I will have to walk on egg shells once he gets home. He has never been violent towards me and I do not think he will. It is just the constant emotional put-downs and afraid of every little thing I might say will bring about a lecture.

Anyway, I know after reading Cathy's post regarding her family, this is VERY MINOR. But, please send some PD this way is you have any to spare. I am sitting here trying my best not to cry thiking about what it might be like. Maybe I am worried over nothing and it will be okay...........but............

 

[browneyes]

{{hugs}} I hope you get a full time job soon so you won't have to worry about walking on eggshells for much longer.

 

[dizneenut]

{{{hugs}}} and PD heading your way.

 

[jetsetter90]

Prayers and PD coming your way. I hope you find a job really soon!!!!

TTFN

Jetsetter90

 

[Dan Murphy]

Sorry to hear that, Carol, the tension must be terrible. Hoping the job front works out soon, my prayers are with you.

 

[delswife]

{{{Hugs}}} I hope you find a full time job real soon. Living in tension is not heathly, please take care of yourself.

 

[tc]

Carol, I am praying that the stress isn't as great as you think it may be. Also, although your problems are not life threatening, they are still important. Each of us have our difficulties, and, even though we may think someone else will think them trivial, they are huge issues in our lives. Feel free to ask for prayers and pd anytime!

 

[KatelynnsAuntie]

You of course know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Please let us know what happens.

I also echo what TC said about everyone's problems being important, and we all need each other's support.

(((((((HUGS)))))))

PM coming soon.

 

[CathyCanada]

Oh, Carol, please don't compare your situation to my cousin's. Everyone has something to deal with and yours is just as important a life-changing situation. You know how much I care about and support you and I will say a prayer for you too. Hang in there sweetie and you know I always have a shoulder for you to lean on!!!
Hugs,
CC

 

[SuiteDisney]

I hope it won't be as bad as you're expecting. You have my best wishes for a stress-free home environment until you're able to move. (((hugs)))

 

[jamsmom]

Well, Jim just called and will be here in about 45 minutes. He called to make sure that I had not parked in the garage and if so, to please move the car so he could park there.

I had thought in advance and had already parked outside. Oh, boy!

 

[carefreegal]

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Just try and take it one day at a time or even one moment at a time if need be. I hope you find a good job soon. Know that you have friends here who care and will support you through it all. God bless you and keep you.

Valerie