Go to the ipod where it shows under devices and see what your sync settings are. If you have it set to sync check marked stuff it might be trying to sync the whole library. Check manually sync.
I have to it sync just selected playlists - but the CD's don't show up there
YOU have to make the play lists, they aren't made for you.
You said you were trying to bring them in from the CD...
looking for coverflow - I know how to get to it on the ipod - but not on itunes...I'm looking....
You know I think you may be looking at DD's ipod and not the library. I know it is so confusing, itunes is a pain in the patootie.
Okay, deep breath, how about starting over?
1) Unplug the ipod for now.
2) Eject the CD so there's no confusion.
3) Go to the top of the list on the left, select music. On the top right there are three boxes, if you click each one they will show your music by list/cover flow/combo of both.(Do the CD's show here? If not they weren't ripped.) List might be easiest for now. (you could now plug in the ipod and drag music over but stick with me for a sec.)
4) Go to play lists, right click and select make new, give it a title.
5) Drag all the music you want on the ipod to the play list. You can drag the whole album or just a few songs, make sure they're check marked.
6)Plug in the ipod. Drag your list over and it will sync automatically.
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