Mom of Three Boys Celebrates Time to Herself

twinmom

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I have decided to write a pre-trip/trip report :cool1: even though I don't know how to add pictures. I am computer stupid :badpc: but maybe my kids can teach me. My oldest taught me how to use the computer as a word processor when he was 7.

First a little history. I grew up watching Wonderful World of Disney. I loved the beginning with Tinkerbell and the fireworks. When Mary Poppins was first released my mother took me to see it. I loved it and we bought the record. I used to go with my mother to her best friends house. She had a daughter close to my age and we would sing all the songs and act out the movie for our mothers. My mother died when I was 12 and not having a father I moved in with my grandparents. Mary Poppins has always reminded me so much of my mother.

When I was 15 I went to Disneyland with my best friends family. We stayed at the beach and only went to the park for one day. I remember very little of it except for the ticket booklets and riding the Matterhorn after it got dark. I also remember the Monte Cristo sandwich I had there. It was the best. I have never found another one that tasted as good.

Fast forward 17 years. I was a Reservist in the Navy :boat: and after going thru a divorce decided to go Active Duty. I had to go to a school in Orlando for 2 weeks and ended up being there for 6. Long story......my paper work got lost and it took forever for the Navy to realize I was still there. Anyway, I went one day to WDW with a few other people. We went to Magic Kingdom and Epcot. MGM hadn't opened yet. I remember eating at Coral Reef.

I ended up in New Orleans (talk about culture shock, Salt Lake City to New Orleans) and later was transferred to Dallas. I got married and had my first boy when I was 36 and twin boys when I was 39. When the boys were 3, 1 and 1, my most wonderful MIL suggested DH and I go somewhere. I suggested WDW and DH agreed. He wasn't really excited but he did it for my sake. I started doing research... buying the books and reading RADP. A new obsession was born. We ended up at WL. DH loved that. We rode all the rides and DH golfed a couple of times. We were gone for 7 days which was about 2 days too many to be away from the kids.

The next year good ole MIL suggested she watch the boys again while DH and I take a trip and again I said WDW. DH said there was no need to go again as we had ridden all the rides before. Who is this man? :confused3 I convinced him to go with the promise of lots of golf. He agreed. This time we stayed at the Beach Club. I loved it but DH would have rather been at WL. Oh well. Couple of golf stories. He was always paired up with people since he was alone. At one point one of the guys in his group made a hole in one. The marshal or whatever they are called was riding past on his golf cart and got the guys name and info. When they arrived back at the clubhouse there was an engraved plaque waiting for the guy. DH was very impressed by Disney that day. Another day DH was golfing with a father/son team. They started talking about golfing at WDW and eventually realized they had been paired with DH the year before on the same course. Everyone sing "It's a Small World." I mean, what are the odds.

The next year I took my oldest son to WDW, just the two of us, when he was 4. He was such a trooper. We stayed at WL with the bunkbeds. We were soo commando and DS never slowed down. Every morning I would give him a breakfast bar and he would eat and watch television :happytv: while I got ready. He later said the best part of the trip was breakfast in bed every morning.

I was still obsessed with planning and reading about WDW and convinced DH to join DVC. :cheer2: We got a resale at Old Key West. There were some left over points for that year so I talked DH into letting me go right after Thanksgiving for 5 days to see the decorations. I was so excited to go solo but eventually he talked me into taking oldest DS again. He was now 5. I decided to surprise him. He was not happy having it sprung on him. I learned then he is not into being surprised. We stayed the first night at Dixie Landing and the rest of the time at Old Key West. We had a good time but it was very cold and he was not quite the trooper that he was his first visit. Of course what 5 YO wants to go around to all the resorts looking at decorations. So it was not quite the trip I had planned. It was fun but not the solo trip I wanted.

The next summer all five of us went to Vero Beach :beach: for 3 days and WDW for 5 days. Here is where DH earned his nickname Mr. Crabby Pants. We stayed at WL. DH would sleep in every morning then go to the fitness center. Mind you he never did any of this at home but of course now that we wanted to get going we had to sit around and wait. He convinced the boys they didn't want to see any parades and that there was nothing in World Showcase they wanted to see. When we left WDW my oldest boy told the twins "Trust me guys, its much more fun with just mom." I was determined I was going to take them by myself after that.

With all my boys in school I stared substituting and saving the money for our next trip. I took them the next year over Spring Break. DH couldn't get away then so it was just us. The boys on this trip are now 8, 6, and 6. We were going thru security and the boys were waving goodbye to their dad. The security guard asked them if they were going to have any fun at WDW without dad and they said something along the lines of he would just ruin the fun. Poor DH. We had a great time and funny thing, the boys loved World Showcase and the parades.

That summer we did do the Vero/WDW thing again with all 5 of us and had a great time. DH did better but we have all realized WDW is just not dads thing.

Since then I have taken the boys almost every spring break up until a couple of years ago. They play select baseball and travel quite a bit with that so spring break is usually made up of baseball. One funny story......one trip the boys and I found a great spot to watch Illuminations. They were probably 9, 7 and 7. The twins are also identical. I went over and got us drinks and popcorn for the wait. Knowing we didn't need one for each of us I got 2 large drinks and 2 popcorns figuring I could share with my oldest and the twins could share. When I got back no one was happy. No one wanted to share. I told them to suit themselves, it was share or get nothing. The twins looked at me and one of them said "We have to share a face and now we have to share our popcorn." :rotfl2:

When traveling to WDW I have to be careful about seeing Mary Poppins. I met her once at a character meal and cried and cried. :sad: I told her the story of my mom and I think she was getting a little teary eyed. She asked for my name and address and a few weeks later I got an autographed picture. When I see her in England I will just sit and watch her and fight the tears. Of course it not quite the same as if it were Julie Andrews but it is close enough. Of course my boys have gotten used to my tears. I tend to tear up over lots of things at WDW.

Two years ago, I decided I really wanted to see the Christmas decorations. DH agreed and off I went for my first solo trip. I stayed at SSR for 5 days and had the best time. I did the Dining Plan. It was tough at first. I have never eaten at a sit down restaurant before but by the end of the trip it was no problem. I did the Candlelight Processional, saw all the Santas in all the countrys and did the Yuletide tour.

That summer I took the boys again but it was sooo hot. We are used to Spring Break. With the boys getting older and soo used to WDW it makes it nicer to travel with them. One afternoon DS13 didn't want to go to AK so we left him at OKW and I went with the twins. Now that he is a teenager he just wants to sleep.

Last January I went with a girlfriend for 6 days. She and her DH and son go often to WDW so she is a veteran. Well we decided to make this as much of a girl trip as possible. We got tickets to the Pirate and Princess Party. pirate: princess: We had an early dinner in the castle. Something I have always wanted to do but with 3 boys.....not happening. We wore our tiaras and had a absolute blast. We were silly and crazy and didn't have to worry about embarrassing our boys. It was probably one of my best trips ever. We took a ton of pictures and did all the things our boys don't want to do. We had been home for 2 weeks when she presented me with a scrapbook of our trip. She made herself one, also and they are work of art. I don't know how she does it.:confused3 I am still working on the trip with DS from 1998.

Last summer the twins and I went to Vero Beach :beach: for 3 days and WDW for just 2. They were supposed to be playing in a baseball tournament in Cocoa Beach but it was cancelled after we made the plane reservations so we made do and went for fun. Of course DS15 wasn't going because he had baseball games at home. And I am sorry to report he is getting more and more like his dad everyday. They hate to travel and would rather sit home and do nothing. The twins and I are just the opposite. We like nothing more that staying in hotels, we don't care where they are. It works out for me because when one of the boys has an out of town baseball tournament I get to take them.

So that bring us up to date. Next post, how I convinced DH to let me go solo again.
 
It started innocently enough. I have always read trip reports on RADP and Mouseplanet. I LOVE trip reports. I did write up the two trips our whole family went on and posted them on RADP but after getting some ugly replies I quit. :sad2: They are still on Mouseplanet if anyone is interested. I always keep notes, take pictures of my food and have always meant to write another one but never have. I have been a member of DIS for quite awhile but had only posted a handfull of time. Just for basic questions. But that was all about to change.

I knew I wouldn't be going to WDW until at least summer of 2009 so last fall I banked our remaining DVC points. I still like to browse around the Disney websites even if I don't have a trip planned. I was looking on the DIS boards when what do I see. Trip reports. Hundreds and hundreds of trip reports. :cool1: How have I missed this all these years:scratchin .....How have I lived. It started innocently enough reading about the lady who went with her beautiful family all the while having two broken arms. I had to read about the woman and her mom that took her sister and partner and haven't hardly spoken since. I started staying up till 2 or 3 in the morning reading trip reports. There is the True Confessions trip, the Up, Down and All around trip report...I actually had a dream about her son.....the bittersweet report from the woman who lost her dear son and now these wonderful people were making special outfits for her daughter for their next trip....It was all too much.....I started posting......I knew I had to go again.....I had to write my own trip report.

I started telling my kids (D15, DS13 and DS13) a couple of weeks before Christmas I wanted to go to WDW as my present. I kept telling DH also but he said we should not be spending thousands of dollars on a trip for just me right now. I told him I could do it for $1000.00 but he didn't believe me. No sign of it Christmas morning but later that afternoon my DH said he talked to the boys and decided that I could go to WDW if I could do it for the $1000.00 I quoted him. :cheer2:

Alrighty then, I love a challenge. We are DVC members so I figured it was a no brainer to stay there. I had used the last of my non expiring 10 day ticket last July so I needed park tickets. I always rent a car :drive: but decided I would use ME instead.

I called DVC and there were no studios available. Rats...but then again since it is just me I thought I should just stay at a value resort and save the points. I figured if we don't use our points I can always sell them so it made financial sense to stay at a value. I noticed the 4/3 sale going on so I asked DH how long I could go. He said 5 days. I checked on line and the dates I wanted no longer had any value resorts available. I told DH the dates and he reminded me DS15 had a baseball tournament that weekend. It is his first for his high school so there was no way I was missing it. I went back to the computer and used the day after the tournament was over. Score. Pop Century was available. I wanted to stay there because I had already stayed at All Star Sports and I want to stay in as many resorts as possible.

I added ME and the counter service dining plan. Total cost $775.00. I got a flight on AA for $193.00 minus the $18.00 in credit I had with them for a grand total for the trip of $950.00. I told DH that left me $50.00 for souvenirs. I didn’t mention the $200.00 gift card I get upon check-in and the Disney Reward money I have saved hoping he would take pity on me. Hasn’t happened yet but maybe the day I leave.:confused3

I also discovered the budget board which so far has cost me $50.00 I wouldn't have spent otherwise. :lmao: I did get into a photopass share and then I saw Crocs on sale. I have never owned a pair but I really wanted to try them for my trip so who can resist a sale. I am now the owner of 2 pair.

So here is what I have so far.

Monday Jan 26th. Leave 10:20. Arrive MCO take ME to hotel. For dinner I will either go to Downtown Disney to Earl of Sandwich or Wolfgang Express. I may go to Pepper Market. I am not sure. Then I am going to MK to see Spectro and Wishes. It is EMH that night. I am not sure how long I will stay, it depends on the crowds.

Tues Jan 27th. DHS rope drop. Toy Story Mania of course. I love this ride. I will get FP then ride. I am not sure what I am doing for meals. I will play this by ear. I will be using snack credits for breakfast, most likely. I am one of the few that doesn't care about Fantasmic so I will just do the usual TOT and RnRC, etc. I do want to see the afternoon parade. I have not seen the HSM show and I might force myself to see this. I have not seen much of the movie either but I do have a fondness for the movie because I went to East High School. My only claim to fame! It was a long time ago and the school has changed but it is the same school.

Wed. Jan 28th. MK Do the usual. I love Pecos Bill but I think it will be closed when I am there. As will Mickeys Philharmagic, which I am really bummed about. I do want to see the fairies. I am not sure how long I am willing to wait. I think I will roam around Toontown. I have not been there in ages. My sons out grew this area ages ago.

Thurs Jan 29th, Epcot. Soarin first. I want to eat lunch at Tangierine Cafe. See lots of Off Kilter. I rarely drink and never at WDW as I am always driving and I have my kids with me. Well this time no car, no kids. I have seen pictures of lots of drinks and I may indulge in one or two. I do want to see Illuminations as I haven't seen it in a while. I am going to try and see all the movies. I have not seen the new Canada one and the only other one I have seen is France.

Fri Jan 30th AK Go straight to Safari. I will pass on EE. I get motion sick on this. If I decide to do it I will go right before I am leaving. Although I did think about trying to get into Boma this night. I love it there. I will definitely see Nemo. I always cry.

Sat Jan 31st. I leave at 5:30 PM. No telling what time ME will pick me up but it is morning EMH for HS so I will go over there for the Toy Story Mania mania.

If crowds are very low and I am getting through rides fairly quickly I may upgrade to a park hopper and go to Epcot in the evenings. I love Epcot in the evenings.

In every trip to WDW I try to do something new every day and I will continue that tradition this trip. I already have a few firsts. Pop Century and ME being the main two.

I hope this will not be too boring without pictures. Like I said earlier I will try to figure out how to do it when I get home. I did learn how to add a link the other day. I was so proud. :goodvibes
 
Well things have changed since I wrote the beginning of my trip report. I was still debating whether to post or not because of my lack of pictures and the ugly replys I got on a trip report long ago and not on this site. I finally decided to post because I know y'all are too nice to say ugly things.:grouphug:

I have been agonizing over the no car thing and taking ME. This would be my first time without a car. Well, a couple of days ago I got an email from Alamo with an internet special. I managed to get an economy car for 6 days for $101.90 :cheer2: Even tho it puts me $50.00 over budget I decided to go for it. And DH said he didn't even know why I was debating it because he can't imagine going without a car.

So my touring plans have changed. I am definitely getting a park hopper pass. I will probably stick with the same general plan but if I decide I have been in a park enough for one day I will go to another in the evenings. I will have TGM ready to tell me where is the best place to be. I am still wondering how crowded:crowded: the parks will be on Fri and Sat before the super bowl. Touring Plans website is predicting it will be very crowded on Sat. For that reason I am planning on doing AK for my last day. I would think most families, if they are only there for a long weekend, would not choose AK over the other parks. But we will see.

I am doing the counter service dining plan but want to have one TS meal. I can't decide between Boma or Ohanas. I love them both but my kids would be much more likely to go to Ohanas than Boma so I feel like I should go to Bomas since I will be alone. But I heard Ohanas has changed their menu a little bit so I wouldn't mind trying that out. I wish I could just go for dessert because I love the Bananas Foster Bread Pudding.

Of course now that I am driving I might not be able to drink:drinking1 quite as much as I was planning. Oh well. I could start early and give my self time to sober up before I leave :thumbsup2

I am also going to try to take just carry on luggage. Another first. It is tough trying to put all my liquids in a little bag but now that I will have a car I can run to the grocery store which I plan on doing anyway because I have to have a Diet Coke in the mornings. I am not a coffee drinker but I love the bubbles in the morning.

Now I am just trying to get the house clean and all the clothes washed so my family can survive while I am gone. The boys can use the microwave and they do know how to do laundry but poor DH doesn't even know how to turn on the stove since we got a gas stove top:rotfl2: Bless his heart. And if you live in Texas you know what Bless his heart means really:rolleyes:
 
I am 35 hours away from departure and my cold is not much better.:sad1: I did go to DS15 baseball game today. It was 32 degrees when we were there. I only stayed for a little while but I did get to see my son get a nice hit so that was nice. It is crazy to think that Friday it was 80 degrees. :confused3 No wonder I have a cold.

Tomorrow I will finish cleaning and laundry and pack. Monday I have to get up early and get all the boys off to school. Then DH will take me to the airport. I am not sure how much sleep I will get the next two nights. Thank goodness for Tylenol PM.

Unless things change I will probably not post again until my return. And then only if I learn to put pictures in the TR because I am sure these are too boring without them. Oh well.

TTFN
 

I hope you have a wonderful time! I wish I could be there too!! Make sure to keep us informed when u get back.:wave2: pixiedust:
 
I hope you have a wonderful time! I wish I could be there too!! Make sure to keep us informed when u get back.:wave2: pixiedust:


You are my new BFF. ::yes:: I thought no one would comment. Thanks for being my first. I hope not my only :bitelip:
 
Dear Twinmom--
I am almost sure our husbands were separated at birth! Their "love" of Disney is so very similar! Aaaaannnnddd--I also have three sons (a bit older than yours--like ten years) aaaaannnnddddd--I did the math, and I think we are about the very same age. Aaaannnnddd--I will just miss you at the World! I leave Feb.5 for a partly solo birthday trip (2 girlfriends joining me later). Sooo--I really hope you will come back and do a trip report, with or without pictures. I will certainly read it! Oh my gosh, you leave tomorrow! Have a wonderful, magical time!:cheer2:
 
Have FUN - you can have a few :drinking1 Just use the buses THAT day.;)
 
Dear Twinmom--
I am almost sure our husbands were separated at birth! Their "love" of Disney is so very similar! Aaaaannnnddd--I also have three sons (a bit older than yours--like ten years) aaaaannnnddddd--I did the math, and I think we are about the very same age. Aaaannnnddd--I will just miss you at the World! I leave Feb.5 for a partly solo birthday trip (2 girlfriends joining me later). Sooo--I really hope you will come back and do a trip report, with or without pictures. I will certainly read it! Oh my gosh, you leave tomorrow! Have a wonderful, magical time!:cheer2:

Thanks for the encouragement. :cheer2: Is your son still a soldier? I have big plans to try and get to the MK early one day I am there and try to be the Military person they use for the flag ceremony. I think that would be waaay cool. Have fun with your girlfriends. I had an absolute blast with my friend last year. It is so nice to be away from the testosterone for a little while. :lmao:

I am probably older than you. It seems I am older than everyone. My boys think I was born in the stone age.

Hope the weather holds up for you. It looks like it will be warm all week until the day I leave.

Have a blast.pixiedust:
 
Have FUN - you can have a few :drinking1 Just use the buses THAT day.;)

Very true :thumbsup2 I always have big plans to have a drink and then I never do. I like to eat my calories :rotfl: And I eat of lot of them darn it.
 
My son spent 3 years with the 10th Mountain Division, one in Iraq. He's home now and in college, but still in the Reserves--but with a unit here in town, so we can see him everyday. :)

Now, I still think we're the same age (NObody's older than ME--just ask my kids. "Did the dinosaurs chase you home from school, mom?")

Can't wait for you to return and tell us all about your trip:coffee:
Good luck with the flag ceremony--I hope it works out for you!
 
Subscribing to this TR ---- actually I'm trying to live vicariously through you! I'm a mom of three boys also (16, 12, 9 -- your title snagged me!) and LONG to go on a solo (or maybe with a friend) Disney trip. I was born and raised in Florida so I went to Disney many times, but I think I enjoy and appreciate it MUCH more now that I'm a grown-up. DH likes Disney, but spending each and every year's vacation there doesn't exactly appeal to him. I look forward to your updates!
 












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