Sugar Jones
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 6, 2010
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I paid unemployment premiums for 16 years before ever having to use them. I have been collecting UI for 15 months now. I do not in any way feel guilty for collecting the money I am getting. I check the job bank, help wanted ad etc... everyday. I can't take a $10.00/hr job it's not worth it when you have to pay for 3 kids in daycare. I will continue to collect until I find a suitable job or until it runs out.
Do you think maybe your bil could be depressed? I know when my Dad lost his job at 55 he went through a major depression. He didn't drink, but his thinking was why would anyone hire a 55 year old man who is used to making $75000.00 a year when they could hire a 25 year old who would be happy to make $50000.00 And he was right. He never did find a job, he ended up taking an early retirement, but it was a tough couple of years with his depression because of it
Do you think maybe your bil could be depressed? I know when my Dad lost his job at 55 he went through a major depression. He didn't drink, but his thinking was why would anyone hire a 55 year old man who is used to making $75000.00 a year when they could hire a 25 year old who would be happy to make $50000.00 And he was right. He never did find a job, he ended up taking an early retirement, but it was a tough couple of years with his depression because of it
